- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
Ok ladies I never thought I’d have to vent about my Maid/Matron of Honor especially so close to the wedding but I need your advice! In a nutshell my Maid/Matron of Honor which is also my cousin has been wonderful throughout this whole wedding process until she went goo goo gag a over some guy who doesn’t even want to be with her. Recently he moved away from her and now lives closer to our ceremony location. Lately I haven’t felt like talking to her about anything wedding related because she’s so bummed out about this guy and can’t seem to focus on anything else. She is also the type to put all her eggs in one basket and falls for these guys and once they leave she’s devastated. She hooks up with these guys, falls in love and then they leave. It’s been a pattern repeated many times but she doesn’t seem to learn. So back to my issue…she’s supposed to come to my house and sleep over the night before the wedding and I THOUGHT I was going to ride with her to the wedding. Come to find out she’s going to drive to that guy’s house so they can go the wedding together and she’s leaving my other cousin to drive me instead. She tells my other Bridesmaid or Best Man that she’s going to his house in hopes that after the ceremony he will invite her upstairs. I am so annoyed and I feel like she’s ditching me to be with this guy that doesn’t even give her the time of day. I don’t know what I should tell her but I definitely want to say something. Also, with the wedding so close is it even worth it? I just feel kinda hurt and FH is totally over her and if he found out about this he would un-invite them both.