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My first wedding anxiety nightmare

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arobb81   January 16, 2010  South Florida

I felt like sharing, and I wanted to see if anyone else has had similar nightmares!

I bought this lace bolero on etsy and I've been really nervous that it will be too small, and it won't match my dress, or it will arrive completely wrong.  Well, this morning I dreamt that it arrived but it was not a lace bolero- the seller had accidentally sent me an ivory satin cathedral length mantilla veil, with quilted embroidery and lace and tiny pink and green ribbon rosebuds!  Ack!

That's what I get for using my insomnia to make little pink flower hair clips for my flowergirls until past 3am.  No more wedding DIY before bed!  The high temp hot glue gun fumes must have warped my brain.

 
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Miss Snappy Turtle   September 5, 2009  Uniontown, PA

Haha!  Too funny.  In my last nightmare (I have had many) I somehow ended up at the ceremony with no shoes and no accessories.  Oh, and it was pouring down rain.  Luckily I had the dress on!

 
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cheerful   September 2009 - eloped  

I dreamt we got married in a corporate boardroom - and it hadn't yet been cleaned!

 
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FallFlowers     Maryland

Wow... your nightmares are starting early!  Fortunately mine only started about a week ago.  Unfortunately, they've been pretty consistent since then!  My first one involved forgetting to get my mani and pedi untill I was at the hairdressers right before the wedding and begging her to figure a way to help me out!

 
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Charm bracelet   July 24, 2010  Placentia, CA

My wedding is 11 months away and I get weddingmares all the the time! They are kind of funny once you wake up, but not so fun while your in them.  The bad part is that I don't get to have a restful sleep. I am worried I'm going be having restless nights for the next 11 months. (Although, I found that if I pray and ask for no bad dreams, I don't get them. Cooll, huh?)

 
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lemilie   06/05/10  Atlanta

I started having wedding nightmares right around the one year mark.. which seems really early. And all my dreams revolve around the fact that, for some reason, I am getting married the next day, with only the stuff I already have done (which honestly, isn't that much). I wake up terrified. It's awful.

 
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shanns   9/5/09  

my first wedding nightmare was over a year before we even got engaged! i had a dream my mom gave us a "surprise wedding" in the club house at our apartment complex.

it was terrible. i've had awful ones since then too, mostly about forgetting things, being in the wrong place, etc. and then nightmares about him - like the other night i had a dream he had two one night stands he never told me about.

we talked about it. never happened, haha.

 
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hcritton   09/06/09  Seattle, WA

I'm getting married in Vegas and my most recent dream was that I got to Vegas and then I realized as I was getting ready that ALL my makeup was pink. Like salmon pink. My lipstick, my eye shadow, my blush... in my dream I was so panicked wondering how I was going to do my makeup with just one color. It really was scary at the time, LOL!

 
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dachshund   5/22/2010  Fresno, CA

I've had a few wedding nightmares so far.  In the most vivid, it was the morning of the wedding and I hadn't chosen a dress to wear!  I was in tears because I couln't find anything that fit me. 

I also had one where no one showed up, and we got stuck in traffic on the way to the reception and missed it all.  (In actuality our ceremony and reception are at the same place!)

I wake up feeling so stressed out after a night of wedding dreams!  Annnd, I still have 9 months to go!

 
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Stacy Marie   July 24, 2010  

I dreamt someone picked out my wedding dress for me and no one would tell me when the wedding was...the nightmares of a controlfreak!

 
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Future Mrs. Fox   7/25/10  Mendocino, CA

OMG, mine started soon after getting engaged, a year and a half before the wedding. I have had dreams where it is my wedding day and I forgot to buy a dress, dreams where the photographer is terrible and I am having to do everything myself and so on. They aren't any fun at the time but they sure provide entertaining stories.

 
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ddubzz   06.05.10  Los Angeles, CA

Ahhhh I had my first one last night!!!  I dreamt that it was our wedding day, and our dog was killed the night before (we don't even HAVE a dog), and we totally forgot to purchase wedding bands so we didn't have any rings to exchange-- WTH!!!??  So traumatizing... :(

 

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