My first world problem.

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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3738 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@newcitylights:  There are A LOT of Bees in your situation. I’ll tell you the same thing I tell them: I was topless during my proposal. FH swears I was totally naked. It was nothing like the way Hollywood thinks a proposal should be, but we ended up engaged. It was perfectly us and, hey, it makes for an interesting story! Congrats on your engagement, because that’s all that matters after all! 🙂

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@newcitylights:  Yeps. Time will ease it… till then just focus on being happy. Condition yourself, everytime that negative thought comes, replace it with thinking bout your upcoming wedding!!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Not to say that you shouldn’t be upset, but I feel like this is why Pinterest is bad haha. Nobody did the proposing picture thing until recently, and now it’s like all over the place and people think they’re missing out on something if they don’t have it. You have the memory and you’ll have hundreds of pictures from your wedding, it’s really ok! Most of those proposing pictures on Pinterest are fake anyway, the real ones never look that great…

Post # 6
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174 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Its a bit sucky for you that even though you specifically requested it to be photod and he was all ready for it, that it wasnt because he chickened out. However not everyone has photos of the event. I also dont. Noone else was around when FI proposed, and yes we were out in public at a beach park. It was also very nice because it was so us to be in our own little world. We did get two photos before leaving the place (stop on a roadtrip): one of the two of us just there with the view like tourists, the other posed with him on one knee.  both pics were posed and we used the self timer. Its not te photo that counts to me, and also my proposal is a blur and i dont remember what he said, but i do remember the feeling that came over me at that moment. it was as if we were suddenly inside a box and i couldnt see past him. The world around us disappeared and the only thing i saw was him and me. and thats something no photo could ever capture. so while i also wish i had the photo, at least i have the memory of the moment that wasnt diluted by trying to live up to the camera. 

Post # 7
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368 posts
Helper bee

You should try and recreate it…no shame in that. Maybe do an engagement shoot like couples pictures and have one where he kind of recreates it then you have a picture of what it was like. It is totally understandable that you wanted a photo of the actual thing though…I am just offering suggestions:).

Post # 8
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226 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@s2bmrscook:  How was it that you were topless? lol! Details please! that is if it’s not a TMI situation 😉

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@newcitylights:  Really! I think there’s way more people who didn’t get the proposal moment photographed. It’s such a private moment, that is way too too much planning to get that moment photographed! I have an after proposal photo which I think most do. Don’t be tricked that just because you see proposal photos it doesn’t they are the majority. The ones who don’t have them aren’t posting them right?!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@s2bmrscook:  That sounds like a pretty good proposal imo!

Post # 11
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Buzzing Beekeeper

@s2bmrscook:  Excuse me, what? How did this happen? Do tell 😀

@newcitylights:  The end result is the same – you’re marrying the man you love. The proposal is one thing that is he and it can be done however he – not you – want. I’d much rather not have a say and know that it is coming from him, not my direction.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Make sure you plan your photographer/ videographer for when the wedding actually comes. Hopefully at that point, the proposal wouldn’t seem as important.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@PetalFace:  

@MsW-to-MrsM:  

@MrsPanda99:  

Well, the short version is that he made a fire in the fireplace and told me to get ready for a massage. I know where his “massages” end up, so I figured I might as well be prepared. Needless to say, I was expecting a different kind of “happy ending.”

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@s2bmrscook:  THAT is an awesome proposal!

I don’t have pictures from the proposal, and I’m actually happy about that.  It was our private moment together, and I’m glad no one else was watching.  I’ve already forgotten what he wore (he wears sport coats/dress pants to work every day!) but I’ll never forget him getting on one knee and asking me.  That’s burned into my brain 🙂

Post # 15
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6887 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle!

@newcitylights:  Honestly I’m a bee who got a public, photographed proposal and it wasn’t really my thing. The whole thing felt quite rushed and because it was in public he didn’t “pour his heart and soul out to me” like how I imagined he would. So coming from the other side, I wish it was more private because that way it would’ve felt more meaningful. Yeah, we have the moment on camera.. but I almost don’t like the picture because it just makes me remember how rushed and in a way, unromantic the whole thing felt. Pinterest and FB pics on engagements always make them look so romantic and amazing, but sometimes it’s not what it seems.

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

Heck, I got my proposal when we were laying in bed. Without a ring. It doesnt matter, you’re still engaged!

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