(Closed) BM wants to make jewelry for EVERYONE!… I'm not so sure about it

posted 6 years ago in Accessories
Post # 3
5075 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would just say “thank you for the offer but we’re all set on jewelry.”


Post # 4
3697 posts
Sugar bee

I would say, “as a bride, I feel uncomfortable about giving people jewelry with the implication that they have to wear it for the wedding. I prefer to let people choose their own. Thank you, your offer is very generous and I would love to see what you make, I just don’t want your feelings to be hurt if people have other ideas about what jewelry they want to wear.”

Post # 5
1736 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would let her make the jewelry, but be clear that you are not going to expect people to choose to wear it. Like the PP above said, say that you are allowing everyone to choose their own jewelry for the day of the wedding. Perhaps you can have her hand-made jewelry as part of the presents you gift to the bridal party so long as she understands it might not be worn that day.

Post # 7
1719 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would keep it really simple and just say that you’d like the BMs to pick out jewelry that suits their personality. 

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