Post # 1
A little while ago I wrote about my grandad being ill, and asked for your support. I went to see him in hospital and that was such a good choice.
I’m very sad to say that he passed away on Tuesday afternoon.
He was comfortable and my mum had just visited him.
I feel kinda numb and like I can’t even hold my focus on anything anymore.
I’m not ready to say goodbye though!
Sorry, this is just rambling now. Thank you if you read this
Post # 2
- Wedding: June 2014 - British Columbia
RhianfaHW: Aw, I am so sorry to hear that. Losing loved ones prior to life-changing events (like weddings; etc) is a huge blow. Bear hugs.
Take the time to let the shock sink in. Grief has 3 to 4 stages. I’m still grieving over the loss of my dad 10 months ago; 8 months before the wedding — the pain doesn’t go away. I still miss my grandma to this day too.
Please PM me if you ever needed a listening ear.
Post # 3
RhianfaHW: I am so sorry for your loss :'(
It was just my grandpa’s 1 year death anniversary and it was awful. All the pain and memories came back. I miss him.
Your grandpa is your guardian angel now so be good 🙂
Post # 4
Cynderbug: Thank you for your kind words. I have really mixed emotions, I almost feel guilty and angry with myself for being sad, I’ve never grieved like this before, part of me is saying, you’re a grown woman, you should get ahold of yourself and stop crying?! Is that normal?
MrsPiggles: Thank you so much. You made me cry! haha.
Post # 5
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how tough it is and I know it feels like you will never be happy again, but you will. Hugs x
Post # 6
MsBeer: Thank you.
I was sobbing into SO’s chest last night when I yawned, which made him say ‘how rude of that yawn to interrupt you’, it really made me laugh. He knows how to make me smile.
Ha, then I fell asleep on his chest, I could feel him trying to move me off which woke me up and laugh at him again.
He makes this less lonely and hard. Love him x
Post # 7
RhianfaHW: It’s good you have support. When my beloved Grandad died by douchebag ex went away for three days to a different city to find himself and decide if he wanted to move away (which was basically code for binge drinking somewhere different!) It is good to know you have loving support through this horrible time.