(Closed) My husband seems mad at me :(

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Sorry you’re having a rough night!

It seems like you snapped at him first about his driving and then he kept it going. Calling him selfish because he was speeding might have been a bit of a low-blow. I think perhaps you could take the first step and approach him with that. He also seems to be over reacting by sleeping in a different room without talking to you about what’s wrong… I would suggest being open and loving towards him, recognizing how you contributed as a starting spot. Perhaps there will be an opportunity to say, ‘look a messed up for snapping at you. I know that must have been hurtful. I’m a bit worried about how fast we moved to sleeping apart… can we talk more about that?

I’m not sure what your issues with his ex, sister and SIL were/are, so I don’t know if that perhaps also was a factor in his reactions.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Wow, I really hope he can behave like an adult and express what his true concerns are.  If you do end up talking with him and he gets pissy, say you’d rather continue this conversation when he’s calmed down. 

 

Does he always speed when he’s driving?  What did you say in the past?

 

My ex was a very road rage type of driver.  I did yell at him once because he was driving so out of control and it was scarying the daylights out of me only to get after someone who pissed him off.  I told him he was selfish for not considering my own life!  So there’s a point where it’s just driving fast and flat out scaring you.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Any updates?  You didn’t give us much to go by!  Hope you are OK!

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