Post # 1
tonight my husband told me the reason men cheat are because women are bitches, mean, and make their lives miserable. it all started when he said I don’t clean, which I do. I’m not the cleanest person ever but my house isn’t crawling with bugs or dirt. we got in a fight about it and i was keeping my cool not saying anything back. All of a sudden he throws that at me. all my emotions and mind went blank. I felt like I was in a tunnel. Somehow I do blame myself for his cheating. is he right?
Post # 3
@anon007: he feels guilty. Tries to say some BS to make YOU feel guilty instead. Load of codswallop.
Post # 5
Of course he blames you. It’s either that or admit he’s the scumbag. Which do you think sounds better to him? It’s easier on him to make you the bad guy. Cheaters usually do that.
Post # 6
@anon007: Seriously..your husband sounds like a misogynistic jerk. Don’t u dare for a second blame yourself for his being an unfaithful ass.
Post # 7
@anon007: Oh no no no hunny men cheat cuz he their selfish don’t ever blame yourself.
Post # 8
No, it is absolutely not your fault. He doesn’t like feeling guilty so he is trying to justify cheating (which he can’t). Please do not listen to his BS.
Post # 9
Tell him that he’s a fucking asshole.
Post # 10
@anon007: No he’s 100% wrong. Cheating is never right. He’s just justifying his actions.
If he’s cheating you should leave him.
Post # 11
I mean sometimes I wonder if I would have done his laundry more or had sex with him more maybe he wouldn’t have cheated. But then I get snapped back to reality that he probably would have done it even if wiped his ass for him.
Post # 12
@anon007: omg I’m so sorry! I read some of your past posts and I feel there is something very wrong with your husband, He is tearing your family apart and it’s time to get out and leave. Take your daughter with you and get a formal divorce and custody agreement. I know this sounds severe but read over your posts and imagine it was your daughter telling her own story, wouldn’t you want better for her?
Post # 13
I’m trying to get past his past (my first post) but this isn’t helping.
Post # 14
Men don’t cheat because their dinner wasn’t on time, it’s because he’s an asshole and can’t admit hes wrong.
Post # 15
@anon007: my mouth just dropped open. I have no comment.
Post # 16
I just read you previous posts as well. Please look into a divorce. This doesn’t sound like a healthy environment for you or your daughter!