(Closed) My husband’s telling EVERYONE

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
Member
1486 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

:-/ sorry, he really shouldnt have done that.

Post # 4
Member
20 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Awww ๐Ÿ™ Maybe just sit your husband down for a moment and explain to him that this is important to you and your parents I’m sure would have their feelings hurt if everyone else found out about the baby before them. I’d also recommend telling your parents soon because it’s hard to keep a secret like that! ๐Ÿ™‚ I would just sit him down and tell him how you feel about everything and to prevent your parents from getting their feelings hurt, that you’d like him to refrain from telling anyone else.

Post # 6
Member
1032 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I’m sorry. That’s total BS. He shouldn’t be telling people if you asked him not to and the parents havn’t been told. I’m sorry…I think you really need to explain to him how you feel about this. You guys are a team and he really needs to listen to you

Post # 7
Member
1058 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Then your best bet is to go ahead and tell your parents. Because if he is already telling people…who are you keeping it from? Its better they find out from you and your hubby than from word on the street through people, who have told people, who have told people, or through facebook.

 

So, plan a nice way to tell em and let it rip! -your hubby can’t contain himself! LOL

Post # 8
Member
2538 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

My husband did the same thing with Moose. He was just too excited and couldn’t keep it in. Frankly, I found it really sweet.

Post # 9
Member
59 posts
Worker bee

Definitely talk with him and let him know that you STILL don’t want him telling anyone. Maybe mention that you’d like to be able to tell people together, so he won’t continue telling everyone when you’re not present?

Like some other Bees said, I definitely think you should tell your parents. You never know how they might hear about it, and you definitely want them to hear this great news from you!

Congratulations, by the way!

Post # 10
Member
2208 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

My husband did it with ours as well.  After we lef tthe 6week ultrasound, he took a photo of it and sent it to all his friends and told all his coworkers the next day.  I found it kind of sweet as well.  I was annoyed at first too, but hes so excited he cant keep it in.  As long as he doesnt tell family or someone at your workplace where you are trying to keep it quiet, Id lt it be.

Post # 11
Member
165 posts
Blushing bee

I understand wanting your folks to know before others, but to be fair over two months is a long time to not be able to talk about it to anyone (his needs/wishes have to be considered too)…so glad you’re telling your parents this weekend.  My husband and I told our parents early on and we agreed to wait until the 2nd trimester mark to tell our extended family, friends and work.   When he’d come home confessing that he’d told his eye doctor and a random lady in the grocery check out line…virtual strangers he could “safely” tell without the rest of our world finding out the news…I knew it was time to tell a few close friends and family so he could share his excitement.  May seem a little annoying now, but sounds like you have the makings of a good dad on your hands if he’s this excited. 

Post # 12
Member
2906 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

๐Ÿ™  so sorry!  you should tell your parents before it gets out to them, but also tell them that you wanted to wait but your husband can’t keep  his mouth shut. they’ll understand, they had you and probably waited to tell everyone, too!

Post # 13
Member
1221 posts
Bumble bee

Im so worried about that when we finally get a BFP.. my DH cant keep a seceret if his life depended on it… hes the type that would tell me what he got me days before i open a present.. or wake me up a few days before christmas to just tell me to open the dam present already LOL

The topic ‘My husband’s telling EVERYONE’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors