- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Hey ladies I just sent this to my Maid/Matron of Honor do you think its a little harsh? Now I dont know what to do next. She sent a text to my parnter saying we r all sick of being left in the dark meaning shes spoken to some BMs but not others, wish weddings were easy.
Since my recent attempts to contact and meet with you have failed I write this letter, due to me not having a mobile too, I understand the hardship this has caused.
I have to say that due to me buying a wedding dress everything is malfunctioning.
For your information and to other bridesmaids I have arranged a meet up in April on Facebook.
Mat has advised some views and we would like to relay that other then the dress no other wedding plans have been made. In response to having picked any dresses or anything else, this really actually hurts and I hope you know that I would actually never pick them for you guys and was hoping that in April we could all discuss what you girls would like together.
I would just like to point out that the only decision you haven’t been aware of was the dress and I am sorry, and trust me what I thought was meant to be a happy day for me has lead to regret. To think that I would lose a friend over this is silly and I hope it hasn’t gone that far.
I have been told that you girls feel like you have been left in the dark. I am really upset, and hurt that you all feel this way. But no plans are set and I think you would know that if we could have spoken. I’m disappointed in myself for not asking you but like I said it was not planned at all I went out looking for my mothers birthday present and walked into a shop as it had a sale on that day.
If the circumstance were correct I would of taking my mum and you if you were available, in the end I decided to buy it as it was $1000 off.
The event in April is to find out dates for when all you girls are free throughout the year so we can decided on further details.
I have had enough no more, if this is something you would like to continue with let me know, If not I am not one to play games and would rather be aware of it sooner rather then later this goes for all bridesmaids, and since most of you talk that’s great just wish you could all let me know how you feel except from just one, that wasn’t even directed to me.
I love you XXXXX but if you let my one mistake take over then that’s what it will always be. I never meant to hurt you. I have never had a wedding I don’t always know what I should or should not be doing. I hope my mistake doesn’t ruin our friendship, I’m sorry.