(Closed) My Matron of Honor’s Dress Dilemma – Update on Vent

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 4
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1580 posts
Bumble bee

Does she want to be in the wedding?

I’d drop the issue with the flower girl dress and just pay for it. Unless your sister begged you to make her daughter the flower girl, I don’t think she should have to foot the bill for two dresses.

Is she in a tough money situation?

Post # 6
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1580 posts
Bumble bee

Wow, that stinks. The worst part is that it is going on for so long! I’m sorry, I don’t know what to tell you. Except maybe to tell her that if she doesn’t get the dress by a certain deadline she wont be in the wedding.

Post # 8
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1426 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Could you get a parent on board to get her to call you?  Whatever she decides, she needs to communicate with you!

Post # 9
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1684 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

Aw man. PrncssDva I’m so sorry – she prob doesn’t realize that it’s better to get this stuff done & outta the way cuz she might think she has 6mo’s left. Trust me, I’m fighting with FI to haul his butt in to pic tuxes.

Have you tried calling DB yourself and seeing if there’s a dress ANYwhere like I suggested in the last post? I know you really like that dress – if I were you, I’d just go ahead and order it myself and have her pay you back after so you don’t lose out. If the FG dress DOES sit in storage — I say she pays for that too.

I’d def. talk to her when you get a chance to see what’s going on.

Post # 11
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1426 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

That sucks.  I’m sorry she won’t act her age.  I say bring out the big guns and call her every single day until she finally answers or else becomes so overwhelmed by the guilt of blatantly ignoring you that she calls you herself.

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