(Closed) my missing BMs….

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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19 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2012

If your best friend had already made plans with you to spend the summer wedding planning, she will shine through! Otherwise just talk to her about it–I can understand your feelings though. You can long-distance plan…. that’s what internet and weddingbee is for! 🙂 Chin up! And happy planninng!

Post # 4
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383 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree with hid-den!

Google docs are super easy to share as are links, pinterest accounts, etc.

My BFF isn’t local either, but we email every day and share ideas constantly.

Post # 5
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46161 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Give your self permission to be sad about your girlfriends moving away. Then set a deadline, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get on with life.

“The point” is you are planing a marriage, not just a wedding. There are plenty of brides iin the same boat and you will do just fine.  It’s just a normal reaction to adjusting to the change in expectations.You can always commuicate with your girlfriends via email and skype and still share the excitement.

And, of course , you can always turn to the “bee”.

 

Post # 6
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3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@kryje003:  (((HUGS))) it’ll be alright.  I can understand where you’re coming from, but at the same time, you also now have excuses to go and visit them on the weekends!  (IF it’s feasable, of course).

If it helps any, none of my girls (2 BMS, 1 MOH) are involved in the wedding planning.  My FI is only helpful when I bring it up (which is rather frequent, lol).  So, I’m pretty much on my own also.

It’s not much consulation, but at least you can call/email your girls AND you have the WeddingBee, too!!!!

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