My MOH is ignoring me..

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
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839 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@MlleDarcy:  I don’t know what is customary for where you live regarding what bridesmaids expect to pay for, but man, if I were your MOH I’d be super grateful that you are paying for all the things you listed. As a BM, I’ve always had to pay for my dress, transportation, hair, and usually shoes as well. 

I would try to reach out to her one more time and ask her straight up if she still wants to be your MOH. I know you’ve already texted her, but give it one more shot. If she still is ignoring you, then I’d ask her to step down. I don’t know what else you can do for someone like that. 

Post # 6
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463 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

Set a deadline for youself…If she doesn’t contact you on such and such a date you will write her a note explaining why you are going to do xyz..? Maybe that will work?

Post # 7
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839 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@MlleDarcy:  I don’t blame you. I wouldn’t want to initiate either, but it doesn’t sound like she’s the type of person who’s going to get back to you any time soon Undecided

Best of luck! I hope it all works out. 

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