- 5 years ago
So my mom didnt have the best relationship with my grandfather(her dad) when she was growing up. She still dosnt as of todays present. I on the other hand have a good relationship with grandpa and my step grandma since my grandpa remarried when my mom got older. I have a good relationship with to the point that its a very close relationship. My mom gets along with them ok but not well enough to take me to see them. They as well as my sister lives in michigan. My sister dosnt get along with them.
flash foward to todays present we are going to michigan in may for my sisters graduation. My uncle ted who dosnt have the best relationship with them but is willing to be pleasant for my sake cant take me to see them was suppose to take me but cant. I thought about asking my grandma peters and i left a voice mail and didnt answer. then i called my mom and told her about uncle ted not taking me to see them due to them being busy. I told her about asking grandma peters and she got mad saying how its too much to ask from somebody and i suggested why dont you and dad take me and shes like o no i dont wanna bee in that position. I am flying to michigan but riding back with my parents and i only get to see my grandparents once a year. She then added either my grandparents pick me up in royal oak since they live in macomb, or ask one of my other uncles to take me, or not see them at all. either way they dont wanna see them with me just for me. I love my mother dearly but her not wanting to see them with me for me is upseting.
so what can i do in this situation. sorry for the long rant.