- 6 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
Ok so I talked to my aunt earlier who will be helping us with a certain amount for the wedding, I let her know that I had changed my date to a week later so that she would be done with finals and then come to my wedding. She told my mom that why didnt I change my date to a week before or after my cousins wedding who will be getting married in March of next year and I get married this December. My mom wouldnt stop telling me right now that if she was helping with the wedding why not do that for her of having the weddings close to each other so she would only have to make one trip since she is from Arizona, really far away from us. I got angry because I moved my wedding one week later for my aunt because thats what she had asked for at the beginning (but this was before my cousin had even gotten engaged) and because my mom never stopped telling me to move the date (shes been doing it for months!). Fiance doesnt have a job right now but he is looking, my mom wont stop repeating this and it drives me insane because she tells EVERYONE! I told her right now that if she kept saying it, the chances of him getting a job were going to drop even lower because of her negativity! Its like she doesnt want him to find a job so that I wont get married yet! This is why I havent even gone dress shopping in the first place, because she wont stop saying to wait because I may not even be getting married this December! Ugh we plan too, God willing, but obviously thats not what she has in mind. I told her that why couldnt she just support our decisions and instead of asking me to change my date ask my cousin to change hers to fit mine see what she said (not literally) but I dont see why I would have to be the one to change my date when I have been engaged for almost a year, and cousin only has been for about 2 months! Not fair to me at all! I’m sorry you have to read all this bees, I just needed to vent how my mom makes me feel about this all the time!
What would you do? Change your date or ignore and keep your date?
Fiance & I dont plan to change our date, but I still want to hear what you have to say.