My mom is having a double mastectomy tomorrow.

posted 3 years ago in Wellness
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I have not but I wish your mother good luck! Sending prayers your way!

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

My egg donor is BRCA 1 & 2 positive.  I found out last fall.  I am 31 and undecided when I will take the test or what I will do… but I know they recommend to do it before I am 35 if I am positive (preventative surgery.)  At the very least, I would start with a mammogram.  I had to get my first at 30 (when I learned of this thing) and it gives doctors a clean image of when your breasts are in good health, so that way they can spot something sooner rather than later.

@ClassicStarlight:    I wish your mom the best.

Post # 5
842 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@ClassicStarlight:  I have not been through this with everyone, but I want to send prayers and good thoughts your way!  

Post # 6
3978 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

My FMIL is going through chemo right now, and she’s not sure what kind of surgery she’ll need or if she has teh gene (or if she’ll test). I understand your nerves! We’re all here for you– it sounds like your mom is a trooper— she’s going to beat this!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

23andme is only $100 right now, and they screen for BRCA mutations if you decide you’d like to know.


Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rosehill Community Center

@ClassicStarlight:  Oh man, that is rough.  Two times going through all that?  Wow, what a strong woman your mom must be.  My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer about a year ago (wow, it’s been that long?!) and had a single mastectomy in January.  She did really well, and took it easy for a few weeks afterwards, and is mostly fine now, other than having to wear a fake boob.  When she went in for the surgery, she had told me beforehand that she didn’t want visitors (even me!) afterwards, so I didn’t plan on going, but my dad called and said he needed to leave, so maybe I could come down.  Anyway, seeing her in the hospital bed, without a wig, and hooked up to machines, she looked so small and vulnerable, but was totally lively and herself.  It was incredible. It took a little while, 

Afterwards she went through radiation, but now is cancer-free and almost back to normal (other than some side effects of the chemo that haven’t gone away and might never go away…).  

I’m thankful my mom’s genetic test things came back negative, so I don’t know about that part, but there is always a chance no matter what I guess.  

Anyway, I wish you and your mom the best of luck and I hope she has an easy time of the recovery!  It is a little weird to know she is one-boobed now, but I’m so glad that is behind her.  I can’t imagine going through the treatments twice, so I hope this helps your mom defeat it once and for all.  

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@ClassicStarlight:  Hugs and prayers! Angelina did it and she does doing great! Wishing you the best and that everything will go well! Women, we are more than our bodies, let’s show the world that! 🙂

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

@ClassicStarlight:  I’m so very sorry for all that your mother and family have been through because of this. I cannot even imagine.

I obviously do not know what your mother’s or your own personal beliefs are, and I absolutely do not wish to upset you in any way.

I only am able to offer to others the living hope on which I have based my entire life — the One who has always been there for me through my own numerous surgeries, and whose love and power never fail, and that is God.

May His peace that passes understanding comfort you and your mother and your entire family as your mom undergoes this procedure tomorrow. May you experience His presence in a fresh, new way as you pass through this trial that is before you, and may His infinite grace and healing virtue be upon your mother to remove every trace of this disease from her body, never to return again, in Jesus’ mighty and powerful name, I pray.

(((HUGS))) to you all!

Post # 13
1040 posts
Bumble bee

@ClassicStarlight:  I haven’t had any first hand experience with this… I just wanted to give you **hugs** and tons of support. I will be sending oodles of positive thoughts your way. *more hugs* 

Post # 15
341 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013


@ClassicStarlight:  My mom did this after her second tumor on her breast. The first time it was cancer the second time it wasn’t, but she went ahead with the double mastectomy. She decided it was better to prevent any future incidents. This was 25 years ago and she has stayed cancer free.She was 36 and now going on 61.  Everything will turn out just fine. Just give her lots of love and time for herself to get back to normal. If she wants to be alone don’t let that bother you, its a huge change for her, but she will come around.

As for the gene, i finally got tested and it was negative. Just because she has it doesnt mean you do or that you will get cancer. You should start getting mamagrams once a year. My breast doctor,recommended i start mamograms at 25 so you may want to talk to your doctor. Education and early detection is the key.

Good luck, lots of hugs.

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