- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
For a bit of brief backstory: my parents split up when I was in school, out of the house already. They haven’t always been on the greatest terms although they can tolerate each other if they have to. My mom has a habit of sliding in and out of my life when it is convenient to her, from what I can gather. For that reason I don’t usually put a lot of stock into her plans, because I sort of expect them to fall through.
When Fiance and I got engaged she immediately told me about a place we could have the wedding, and how she would help out with the flowers, etc. It sounded good to me and I figured she wouldn’t back out on me for my own darn wedding. Up until last week she was responding to all of my emails right away– now, after my dad visited us for a week, she’s gone missing. I’ve emailed her about the guest list and about our engagement photos and have had no answer in a week. She’s supposed to be looking up prices for stuff and finalizing our venue because at this point I still have no idea where we are getting married other than that it’s supposed to be near her home. I’m banking on her to come through for me on this.
My Dad and I talked about some family stuff while he was here, things I thought he would keep in confidence, and I don’t know if that has anything to do with it.
I don’t know if I should just keep waiting and give her the benefit of the doubt, that she hasn’t been in touch for a good reason, or if I should ask her what’s up. I’m kind of scared to do that, honestly.
My sister also didn’t answer an email from last week and I’m unsure why. I just have this awful feeling that I’ve somehow done something wrong, and I don’t know WTF I did, and now I’m terrified that my mother is going to back out on me and I’ll have to scramble for some back up plans. I’m reluctant to keep searching for a photographer and other things that are location-based because of this.