- 3 years ago
I need help 🙁
Last july i got engaged. I announced it to my mom and she was somewhat happy. She doesn’t know my fiancé very well because she is not living in the same area as we are. She is in another province so it made it hard for them to know each other. And also she doesn’t like people from his country.
In that same month I moved in with him. But I didn’t tell my mom because she is very traditional and that is not what she expected me to do.
So in September she told me that she was coming to visit me and my sister. That is when I announced her that I had moved. She was so pissed that she almost dissoned me. She stopped talking to me for 4 months. When she came, my sister forced a meeting between me and my mom. In the end she said that she was ok with the situation. However, she never asked to see my fiancé she didn’t wanted to see my new place and she didn’t wanted to see my ring. Also she didn’t announced that I got engenged to my family back in Africa. She said that it was too early ( we getting married august next year).
My fiance havent talk to her since before we got engaged. And I barely call her, maybe twice a month.
I am starting the preparation for the wedding and I dont know if / how I should talk to her about it since she said she was ”ok” with the situation even if to me she is not really happy about it….
How do I “fix” the relationship between my fiance and my mom?
Maybe I shouldn’t talk to her about anything now.
I dont know. I never had a closed relationship with my mom anyways…