My mum is somewhat making waiting more difficult for me (long vent)

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 4
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483 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@sunshinewish15:  And that is the reason none of my family have been told about SO & I going ring shopping a while back. His mother bumped into us while looking at rings and now his parents know. They have been asking him when a how and giving their thoughts. I told him today that there is no pressure on him and as long as we keep focus and remember the situation is about what we want and stick together we’ll be fine. Your a smart cookie until you want her involed mantain the space this is about you and your guy enjoy this moment and just remember when everything is said and done you will be with the love of your life and it would still seem to be stressuful but would have flown by fast too. Good luck

Post # 6
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573 posts
Busy bee

@sunshinewish15:  My parents haven’t been quite that upfront or pestering, but they did have a conversation with me last week to say “What gives, he’s seens you every day for a year and nearly a half”….they got engaged after 2 weeks of dating (married now 26 years).   They can’t understand the hold up but I know SO loves me very much and thinks of our future all the time.  He’s looking into buying a new car as his car has just broken but he was involving me n the decision “as it would affect us long term) (awwww).

It was a relaxed conversation with my parents but now I feel like we have an audience, if that makes sense.

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