- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
So the SO plans to propose soon, this I know. He has said since the summer it would be in December. We have had a lot going on, so in my head I am thinking it may be pushed back some and I wasn’t going to stress it because of some unforseen things that have happened.
Friday after I picked up my little guy from daycare I call him when on my way to the grocery store and to check and see how his day at work was going. When we first discussed getting married and he said he was going to propose before the end of the year I said a Valentines Day weekend engagement party would be so fun. I ALSO said I was not going to plan this party until it was official. And depending on when he proposed, I may not have enough time to plan it for that weekend (not enough time) so we may just do without an engagement party. I honestly don’t know how it came up but at the end of this phone conversation he was like hey wait a minute, I want to talk serious to you about something. In a nutshell he wanted me to know that the proposal is coming very soon and for me to know he is not slacking in any way shape or form. He said when it comes to someone he loves and suprising them he takes that very serious. So his proposal to me and how he does it his HUGE for him. He also said he wanted me to know that my ring is NOT any of the rings I chose. He said but he is 100% sure I love it. He said he knows the style of rings I like (vintage, feminine, dainty). He is very over the top – big and flashy. He said the ring is a reflection of us both. But he said I just want you to relax, know its coming, and plan that engagement party. We found a really cute quiant venue. It’s a jazz lounge that is inside the theater we want to get married (a great way for people to know ahead of time how to get to the venue). He loves this place. He was like if we can’t rent out that jazz club because the date is gone, I am going to be pissed” Lol. So that had me a little nervous…like OMG this is happening and before the New Year!
Fast forward to last night…
Him and I were in bed and I fell asleep on him. He was on his iPad. I happened to turn over and I saw him on The Sagamore’s website http://www.thesagamore.com . The Sagamore is a gorgeous resort on a famous lake here in Upstate NY. Before he relocated here from Cleveland this fall, over the summer we went on a boat ride in Lake George the boat went by The Sagamore and we both admired how gorgeous it is. I saw he was trying to put in room reservations. I faked like I was sleep but he was talking to himself and was frustrated because every reservation he tried to enter the hotel was showing booked. So I dozed off and I woke up again and he was still up. I said babe, what are you doing, its late. He was like just working on some things, putting some things into motion because its about that time. I said “what time?”. He said “just know its time”. I acted like I didn’t hear him and went back to sleep. EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEK!!!
Woke up this morning and stomach has been in knots. My waiting is dwindling!!
OH!! And when I left for work this morning (he was sleep) I kissed him on the cheek to say goodbye and he said “you are going to make a beautiful wife”