My parents are divorcing, acting like children, and using me!!

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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687 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Sorry you’re dealing with this! I have not been through anything similar so can’t give much advise. I think you should send them an email letting them know that you care for each of them individually, regardless of the divorce and that you don’t want to be in the middle of it in ANY way. Let them know that If anyone were to ask you questions about anything purtaining to the divorce that you will be telling the TRUTH and not lieing for either party, maybe encouraging your mom to not use you in her lies.

Is the UPS package something you will have so sign for? Maybe you can refuse to accept it when it arrives; if she doesn’t receive her packages then she will have to stop sending them to you.

Good luck! 🙁

 

Post # 4
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11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I would definitely send them an e-mail! That you love them BOTH, that you will NOT be choosing sides, and that you will only recieve mail intended for yourself or your FI!

Post # 5
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42546 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

They (also so far it sounds like only your mom) can only use them if you let them.

I would tell your Mom that she raised you better than to lie to anyone, much less the government , and you will not be allowing her to use your address in such a way. Anything that comes addressed to her at your address will be returned to sender marked “Does not reside at this address”.

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