My ring and rude friends

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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3016 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I’m sorry, but your friends sort of suck.

ETA: Sorry, I just read a thread than infuriated me. I can be nicer than that!!!

But really, their bad behavior only reflects their lack of common manners; it says nothing about your gorgeous ring!

Post # 5
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214 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2005

@lnadinee:  I’m sorry that is just rude and upsetting 🙁

 

You could post your ring on your thread. I am sure you would gets tons of lovely compliments on your pretty ring 🙂 I’d love to see it, anyway. 

Post # 6
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483 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@lnadinee:  As friends they kinda suck I feel. One of my BM who is married now have a smaller stone. And when I saw her ring it was the most delicate thing ever and the fact that two of my very close friends where tying the knot was enough seeing how excited she was. My ring is a double halo but is a cluster and if me and her was engaged at the same time I would put all my friends in their place after telling her how amazing her ring is. People feel the bigger the rock the better but that not the case I looked at small stones and felt my fingers were to chunky for such a delicate Ering as part of some stack ring awesome but again thats my taste. Oh and from your profile pic it is a very beautiful ring and love that it’s not our typical ering also. Congrats!! Don’t let them take the enjoy out of this awesome time in your life.

Post # 7
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458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

@lnadinee:  I’m sorry you’re feeling bad about your ring,  It is lovely!

That said, if that other girl’s ring is an outlier from the group in terms of size, people are gonna talk about it.  It is big and people like big ass rocks. I guess if they’re already on the subject of rings by looking at yours it is kind of natural that it would come up.  

I’m saying this a bride with a no-stone engagement ring.  I hear all sorts of crazy ish when people look at my ring but IDGAF.  One woman looked at my ring and said ‘that reminds me, my husband said we could look at upgrading.’  cool story, lady. 

 

 

 

 

Post # 9
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4797 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@lnadinee:  Don’t let their lame reaction take away from how much YOU love your ring. But yes, it was very rude.

@nocleverbeepun:  I had to think about IDGAF for like one milisecond to figure it out. Thanks for the laugh! And WTH is wrong with people?!

Post # 10
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1029 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

I just looked at your ering and it’s beautiful!  I can understand how that situation made you feel, but others opinion about your ring can’t and shouldn’t change how you feel about it.  One day when one of my cousin’s saw my ring for the first time she commented,  “Oh, it’s cute.” I replied,  no, cute is you, but my ring is beautiful!  See, that was easy!

Post # 13
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294 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

That’s pretty rude. It would be one thing if you were both newly engaged, but this is kind of ridiculous. I think your ring is very pretty and unique and honestly it gets boring looking at the same-ol halo rings over and over. Some people just don’t know how to behave and act. Sorry you had to deal with that!

Post # 14
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331 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I love your ring…dw about them..I find most people dont realize certain wedding ettiquette until theyve actually gone through it

 

Im a fellow ontario bee with a gemstone ring and I get rude comments..i just brush them off

Post # 15
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2871 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@lnadinee:  Your ring is classy, timeless and very royal 🙂 Love it! Haters gonna hate but choose to ignore them!

Post # 16
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1893 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Dallas, TX

That’s really crappy of your friends. I know how you feel. My ring isn’t tiny or anything, but it’s a 1 carat solitaire and my friends have 2 ct honkers with halos. My ring ALWAYS gets shadowed by theirs. We will go out and strangers will gush over both of their rings and then give me a oh yours is nice too comment out of politeness. I will be honest that it bothers me, but my FI is a graduate student and I know he bought what he could afford and I love it for that.

Definitely post your ring. I love sapphires and would love to see it!

Edit – you posted it while I was typing my response. I LOVE it! It’s beautiful and classic while still being a little different. Gorgeous.

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