(Closed) My SIL just called me FAT *rant*

posted 4 years ago in Fitness
Post # 3
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5015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

WOW!!!! That was super super rude! I would just brush it off, there’s only so much you can do with people like that. I guess you should direct those kinds of questions to another friend!

Post # 4
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1286 posts
Bumble bee

Yeah, I’d ignore her for a while!! That was rude.

Post # 5
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64 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Does this woman have no filter?! Jeeze, I’m so sorry you have someone like that in your life! It sounds like you take the high road with her, which I applaud. I probably would have said something suuuuuuper snarky back to her.

Post # 6
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139 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@MrsPanda99:  wow. That’s not even a “jab”. That’s just a straight up sucker punch. She definitely meant to say what she said. Does your brother know his wife is a b*tch??

i have no idea what your full dimensions are but that’s not even the point. If you feel you need to loose some weight, good on your for getting the videos and working out .

if someone blatantly criticized me like that, I would go OFF. Kudos to you for being the bigger person. I couldn’have pulled that off. 

Post # 7
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11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

how rude!

Post # 8
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2810 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

yesterday, i had someone random tell me that i should lose 60 pounds before the wedding, and that they’d never be as fat as me at their wedding. yes, this was to my face. no, i didn’t know the person.

people have no manners anymore.

i’d just let it go. and like PP’s said, don’t talk to her about that stuff anymore.

Post # 9
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1755 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@MrsPanda99:  What a witch!!!  I’d text her back, “That’s okay.  I’m fat and you’re ugly.  Luckily, I can diet…”  

(Not that you are remotely fat at that size!  Heck I’d love to be your size!)

Then text her back that you’re sorry, it didn’t come out the way you meant it Wink

Post # 10
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1574 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@MrsPanda99:  OMG it would take all my willpower not to knock her out the next time I saw her!!! If I were in your shoes, I’d most definitely have a chat with your brother and let him know you don’t appreciate the inappropriate comments his wife makes and let him know he needs to keep her on a leash when it comes to that sort of thing with you.

Post # 11
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1194 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@MrsPanda99:  Completely inappropriate.  The only way I’d give her a pass is if she was genuinely concerned because you had gained a lot of weight in a very short amount of time.  

Well, maybe not.. the whole “anything would be better than how you look now” is just ridiculous.  That goes beyond just being blunt (which I can be guilty of) and runs right into the “mean girl” territory.

Post # 12
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4528 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I’m a size 12. I say we sit on the skinny bitch and crush her

Post # 14
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286 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

The good news is you can tone up and diet to get in better shape. (BTW a 10 is by no means “fat”!)

Meanwhile, there’s no way to surgically implant a filter into her mouth, or a functional brain into her head.

How horrible…sorry you have to deal with her. *hugs!*

Post # 15
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11760 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MrsPanda99:  I can’t imagine she could have said worse! I definitely don’t think you’re being hyper sensitive (most people are sensitive about weight!) I would have freaking lost my shit if anyone said something so rude to me.  It definitely wasn’t an oops that came out wrong comment. and it was via text?! You’ve got plenty of time to read and delete and re-write before pressing send. 

Post # 16
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5246 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Umm she is a bitch! I would have told her off regardless of her being my sister in law! Power to you for holding it in! She isnt bi-polar she is just a super bitch!

 

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