(Closed) my sister (MOH) is being a bee…the mean kind that stings

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
3068 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

She is being a BEE!!! Your wanting a new dress is really none of her business. It is YOUR wedding so do what YOU want.

Post # 4
3762 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I think its a nice trade off.  You are switching to accomodate your family, but therefore you probably need a new dress. 

Don’t let her bug you.

Post # 5
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

I agree…she’s totally just trying to bug you. I say go out and get yourself a new dress! And if you aren’t wearing your old dress…consider selling it!

Post # 6
708 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

My mom gave me this advise about one of my BMs: Maybe it’s best if you didn’t tell her everything. Sounds like your sister has some unwelcome opinions and you might save yourself some stress and heartache if you kept as many details as possible to yourself. i know that’s hard. My Bridesmaid or Best Man that has too many opinions is my best friend of 20 years and it’s hard to hold back anything, but since my mom gave me that advise my stree level has gone down. Good luck, and get that dress!

PS: Any thoughts on what you are going to wear over your lace dress to keep warm? I could use some ideas

Post # 7
2393 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

If wanting a new dress is cause for therapy, then there’d be a heck of a lot of brides in therapy. lol  Your sister needs to back off.  So many brides change their minds on the dresses…my sister was one of them, and I can guarantee she doesn’t need therapy.  I think your right when you say she sounds jealous.

Post # 8
14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

She’s being a BEEah about it, but I can see how buying a new dress seems frivolous to her. That being said, she should keep her mouth shut, and/or you should just tell her to hush or you’ll put her in some ugly monstrosity and laugh your way down the aisle =]

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