My son is 14 weeks, and I am 5 weeks pregnant! :(

posted 3 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Just wanted to give you a hug!  This is a tough situation, so no judging from me. You sound like you’ve already figured out what to do, so I’m sending you positive vibes for the difficult conversation you need to have and everything else that follows.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Oh you poor thing. Big hugs. HUGE BIG hugs. 🙁

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@MrsConfused:  I really feel for you. I honestly do. What an incredibly emotional time this must be for you! I totally understand your decision to terminate, and I know this is not something you are taking lightly, anyone who would think it is an easy or selfish detail has clearly never been in the same position. I think your choice is based on what you feel is right for, not only you, but your partner & family (your current child and this one). 

I wish I has the right words for you… But I don’t. All I can say is that I am willing to listen of you need to talk. No one can really offer any advice, this is such a personal thing you’re experiencing, but we can listen. And please know that what ever you do, you will never forget, but you will have happy times in life than this.

You are a good person, and you’re clearly thinking of all of the repercussions of your decisions.

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Ps: me typing quickly on phone = terrible typos an gram!!! lol 🙂

Post # 9
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Helper bee

Good luck. I hope you guys can work on your marriage. Having a new baby is a strain and having money be tight is a huge strain. It’s sort of ‘normal’ you guys would have issues in that situation. It’s the biggest worry I have now that having a baby will hurt my marriage. Maybe you could talk to therapist together? It’s a pretty dire situation but I know my insurance covers a few sessions. 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

I’m so sorry you are having to face this difficult situation. Lots of hugs from across the internet and I hope everything turns around soon. I can’t imagine the struggle and emotions you are dealing with! 

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I don’t have any advice, but I’m sending healing thoughts your way.  You are definitely in a very, very difficult situation and whatever choice you make is going to have a huge impact on your life.  Discuss your options with your husband before you have anything done — he could surprise you.  And if he gets mad, remind him that it takes two to tango.

So sorry you have to go through this.

Post # 13
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Busy bee

I am so sorry you are going through this, what an awful time. Yes, to me it sounds like termination is the right choice for you. it sucks, it is hard to go through but I think it is the best choice, not just for you but for your young son as well. I hope this all passes as easily as possible.

Post # 14
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Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2014

while I feel I can’t give you much advice, I feel for you. If I were in your situation, I would focus on you and your husband first – try and find a good time to have a little bit of you time with him… Even if it’s just a coffee together during one of bubs naps and ask your mum to sit him. Make the decision about baby no. 2 together. What ever decision you both make together will be the right one 🙂 and that’s no body’s business, but yours.

 

 

 

i understand running a start up business is super hard and stressful, my fiance and I did it. The best thing we did was know what each other loved and it was seriously the little things, like fiancé leaving a note near my coffee of a morning saying he loved me, that got us through that stress. I guess what I am trying to say is don’t forget your love for each other, it’s always there even if you can’t see it during those stressful days! 

 

 

 

Take a moment, breath. Your husband and you will work it out 🙂 i hope 2014 brings you great joy and happiness! 

 

 

 

 

 

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

@MrsConfused:  OMG that’s awful. My heart goes out to you. I agree termination is the best choice for your family right now. Your new baby boy deserves his special attention. 

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@MrsConfused:  I have no experience or advice, I only wish to send you {{{{hugs}}}} because I feel so badly that you’re so upset. I am so sorry and I hope you’re able to find a peaceful path somehow!! Xoxox

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