(Closed) My step sister

posted 4 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1308 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

In your post you ask if you should be mad. Well…only you have the answer to that.

My dad also was a poor father to my sisters and I. He has only seen my 5 year old 10-15 times in her whole life. He is way more involved with his step children. He has done way more for them and spent way kore time with them. It is upsetting to me to this dag but over time I have sort of lerned to deal with it.

He is who he is. He will not change. Yiu need to accept who he really is and then choose how to live your life. I really had to make the choice to treat him more like an uncle than a father. I do jot go above and beyond to Iinvolve him as it protects me from hurting in the longrun. I didn’t even ask him to walk me down the aisle as it is my opinion that he gave me away far too long ago.

I am really sorry you are going thriugh this. If family mentions him not walking you down the aisle I would let it be known that he was asked and declined for whatever reason.

 

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