(Closed) My TTC Confessions (warning vent/rant inside)

posted 5 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@MrsStrawberry24:  while I haven’t gone through what you have I justo wanted to say I am so sorry. God gives his toughest battles to his strongest warriors just remember that (:

Post # 6
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Busy bee

I have no experience with this but wanted to tell you that I’m sending you good vibes. Don’t give up, where there is hope there is life!

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’s OK to feel all of this things, especially after the struggles you have been through. I guess my only advice here would be to focus on you and not your fertile sister or anyone else. Try not to let the comments or acts of others bring you down – I know that’s hard! And we are all here for you…and crossing our fingers that this long journey is almost over for you!!

Post # 8
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Worker bee

@MrsStrawberry24:  I am so sorry you are going through this, and I can definitly relate 🙁

I am on cycle 9 of TTC and I feel like I have let so many people down by not being able to get a BFP sooner. I know 6 people who are having babies this year. One delivered two days ago and THREE had doctors appt’s yesterday to do blood work. I try to stay positive and I am genuinly happy for them, but it still hurts.

Just because our prayers aren’t answered when we want them to be, doesn’t mean he isnt listening. I will put you in my prayers and pray that we can keep our sanity through this process.

What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger?? I sure hope so….:)

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I don’t have much to say except that I’m sorry you are going through this and I hope you get your BFP positive soon!  Try and stay positive, and it doesn’t make you a bad person for feeling the way you do.  It only makes you human.  Hugs.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Well, that obviously sucks.  I have a suggestion though, since your husband will be away this cycle anyway: Give yourself a month off.  No POAS, maybe a break from FB, no TWW.  Pick something else that you’ve been wanting to do — a long weekend trip, a spa day, a movie marathon, whatever — and give yourself a treat/distraction and try to clear your head.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

@MrsStrawberry24:  I am so sorry for the way you are feeling. Though I haven’t been trying nearly as long as you I can understand your frustrations.. I will never understand how unfit people can get pregnant so easily yet those that want one can’t. I work with babies and see it every single day.. I will be praying for some peace during this emotional time for you, just know that God does have a plan for you and put the desires to be a mother in your heart for a reason and you WILL be a mother some day. 

My husband is out of town this month too during my fertile time.. I was told to “get pregnant” within 6 month of my surgery by my doctors and this is month 4 so with that and I feel like my best months are sliping away through my fingers. And I am on AF with antibiotics too because I am sick. Mean right?!?! You can vent to me anytime you need. I am taking a POAS board break the next couple months..

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

BIG hugs to you…

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@MrsStrawberry24:  Iam soooo sorry you are feeling down.  It is hard when you see babies and pregnant woman out there and wish that were you.  I’ve been there and i still am….IDK what to tell you to cheer you up, .. sorry:(((( .. big ((((((HUGS))))) coming to you!!!

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I know exactly how you feel! I’m going through the exact same thing. Everyday in my news feed, or at my job, I see another seemingly undeserving girl announcing her pregnancy, whereas I feel as if I’m doing all the right things but to no fruition. However, I stop myself from thinking that; what God has for them is for them and what God has for me is for me. You just have to trust in His will: It’s hard, it’s scary, it’s not fair, but its not in your hands. My mother used to tell me “Just lay all your burdens at the cross”.

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”- Romans 8:28 NIV

“We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.”
-Martin Luther King, Jr.

*Hugs*

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