My waiting not actually upset mini rant!

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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2891 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

LittleE3: use partner. That’s how I referred to FI after I moved in but before we got engaged. Manfriend was also popular. He didn’t like either so I didn’t have to wait long. 

Post # 4
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2891 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

LittleE3:  While I was waiting, I used to tell him about what I’d do to the apartment once he moved out. (The agreement was always whoever didn’t want to get married would have to leave our apartment)

I would create Amazon wish lists and stuff. Some might say it was passive aggressive, but I was showing him that I wasn’t going to wait for him to propose forever. I had fun and enjoyed building our relationship together BUT I was also prepared for a future without him in it. And that would be awesome too. 

Now that we’re engaged, the Amazon wish lists are the basis of our registry because everyone could use a nice bamboo cutting board 😉

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

LittleE3:  sorry type A med student id imagine you have lots of studies to focus on! Try to relax and be loving with him maybe he will do it sooner, frustration and pushiness are usually pretty detectable and not attractive. 

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