(Closed) My Wedding Band Debate

posted 9 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I would vote for C, but if it were me I would wear the traditional band on my left and the engagement ring on my right.  That way you I would still get to wear two beautiful rings but would look more "married".  

 Whatever way you decide to go, it’s going to be gorgeous!   

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

I think this post got duplicated.  I commented on the other one!

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I say either option B or C. I’m in the same boat- but I think I will choose B and then get a cheap normal band to wear when I’m not wearing the engagement band.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

The ring is beautiful.   I had a similar situation and had a jeweler make a band to fit my engagement ring.  I also find the band sort of anchors my engagemnt ring. 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

B- I think it’ll look really nice!  Here’s an inspiration photo.

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Post # 9
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Blushing bee

I vote ‘A’. It’s gorgeous, you don’t need anything else!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2008

I vote secret option "D" — after the wedding, switch the engagement ring to your right hand, and wear a simple wedding band on your left hand.  🙂  But that’s only because I really want to have a wedding band.  If it’s not important to you, then definitely just stick with that GORGEOUS engagement ring.  I wouldn’t muck up the beautiful lines and symmetry of it by adding on another ring, although I’m sure you could find someone to custom make it for you.

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I would do either B or C or both.  I love the idea of having a custom band to wrap your engagement ring and wow it is beautiful.  Maybe in the future you can get another wedding band to switch it out with if you prefer.  I would definitely go for B if it were me.  That is what I am going to do, but mine will be white gold on both sides of my e-ring.  Then for future anniversaries down the road there maybe custom bands that flank my e-ring that are whichever gem we want.  it is pretty versatile.  

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

I would choose option B or C.  I think it is important to wear your wedding band and it would be possible to wear it on your right hand.  AND its really easy for jewelers to make rings to fit to engagement rings.  They do it all the time and would be easy to get one custom fit to your ring.

Post # 13
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Newbee

I would do B – who doesn’t like a little but more sparkle? 🙂  By the way, that is a beautiful engagement ring!!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2008

I would wear your engagement ring on your right hand and a wedding band of your choice on your left. That gives you the option of wearing the wedding band alone which you would not have as much if you got one custom made to the shape of the e-ring.

p.s. I love your engagement ring! It’s gorgeous! (and nice to see another Chelsea on weddingbee) 🙂 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

I vote for option D – wear a wedding band on your left hand and your gorgeous engagement ring on your right!

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I second option D. 

I am in love love love with your e ring.  I drooled over similar rings before picking mine out.  I ended up with a similar center setting but the band is straight so it will fit with the wedding band.  Had I gone with the more elaborate band on my e ring I would have worn it on my right hand after the wedding.

Have I mentioned that I love your ering? 

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