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My Wedding Dress....Having doubts!

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  • poll: Which Dress do you like Better?
    Dress #1 -The dress I put a deposit on : (98 votes)
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    Dress #2-The runner-up dress I've been thinking about? : (24 votes)
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    gigiram77    October 10, 2009   NY

    I just put a deposit down on my wedding dress which I LOVED at the store. 

    But having come home and looked at the pictures I took ...I'm not loving it so much. I think it has more to do with me in it and my weight issues, not the dress itself. Although I still have time to lose some weight and tone up.

    It's a Mori Lee dress. I think the dress is beautiful, although I'm not loving the top...What do you bees think?

    The 1st pic is the dress on model, the 2nd is on me, and yes, I'm plus-sized.  The 3rd dress was the runner-up dress I've been thinking about.

    Thanks!

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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    I love it it shows off your curves beautifully!

    But I also like your runner-up - I don't think you can go wrong either way... but you have to LOVE your dress!

     
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    artsprout.love    May 15, 2010   Virginia

    Personally, I love the dress. You look great in it and I think that everyone might have a few shimmers of doubt when they spend that much money and it is supposed to be the most important dress you ever wear. You picked it for a reason though!

    The lacey pattern is gorgeous and it looks a lot more unique than the second dress you posted. I say stick with the dress you already have !

     
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    grace8367    September 6, 2009   Chicago

    I think it looks beautiful on you!

     
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    Madras    September 11, 2010   DC / NC

    I think the one you ordered is beautiful! The vertical pattern is great for streamlining and accentuating your curves. And if it comes with a bolero/jacket -- those can be so expensive to purchase seperately and to have one match perfectly is a big plus! Personally, I prefer the style of yours to the runner up dress, but it's definitely up to your tastes and preferences.

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    wow, the dress is beautiful and looks beautiful on you! i love it!

     
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    snaylor    July 11, 2009   Rochester, NY

    absolutely love the dress u picked!!!  the other one is nice, but i dont like it nearly as much as the dress you picked

     
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    Kirstentaylor    February 14, 2015   DFW, Texas

    I think you picked the right dress! The runner-up dress is beautiful as well, but I think you should stick with the first one. Looks great on you! :)

     
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    ariellebride    9/5/10   Boston MA

    I think you look beautiful in it. It fits your curves nicely and gives you an hourglass shape. I love the little jacket too. I think everyone has a little bit of doubt when buying their wedding dress. I mean there are so many options out there, how are you supposed to know that there isnt on out there that you'd like better. I'm going to try on my dress in a few weeks and I'm very excited! I wouldn't worry though. You look amazing!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    Um I love your dress choice the curves are outta this world it looks sooo much better on you than the model!

     
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    Lovebird724    April 9, 2011   Jersey

    the dress you put a deposit on looks AMAZING on you - honestly, its gorgeous.  the other one is beautiful too, but i would definitely suggest sticking with the first one - you look fabulous :)

     
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    BrianneG    June 5, 2010   Redondo Beach, CA

    I tried on a dress almost exactly like #2. It looked awesome but sitting in it was impossible. Something to keep in mind.

     
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    caszos    June 2010   Florida

    Haev you tried on Dress #2?  I am not sure it would be as flattering as #1 is on you

     
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    jenniferceline    September 25, 2010   Seattle, WA (Wedding in Las Vegas)

    Oh wow, I LOVE the dress you picked! Your curves actually make the dress look AMAZING! Seriously... great choice.

     
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    trugem    January 2011  

    I like the first dress. The model doesn't do this dress justice and you wear it so much better! You look beautiful!

     
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    babyboo      

    Ok I'm not gonna lie. Usually when people post pictures of them vs. the model I think the model wears the dress better.

    But in your case, you ROCK that first dress way better than any model ever could!. It looks like it was MADE for your curves :)

     
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    rosepinkslipper    August 21, 2010   San Francisco, getting married in Seattle

    The first dress is beautiful and so unique, I love it. And you fill it out much nicer than the model, btw.

     
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    jordynrose    October 16, 2010   Las Vegas, NV/Chandler, AZ

    I love your dress!  It looks beautiful on you.  I also think it looks much more special than the second one.  Maybe you could wear it without the jacket if you are not liking it?

     
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    judya64    October 2, 2010   connecticut

    stay with the dress you brought that looks fantastic on you better than the twiggy model.  I'm jealous. Don't second guess yourself it's fantastic.

     
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    YSQueen    October 9, 2011   Atlanta

    I think that you look BEAUTIFUL in the dress.

    A girlfriend of mine who is about your size tried on the same dress and was questioning how it looked on her. One thing I suggested to her is for her to do a small/modified sweetheart neckline so it would help minimize the broadness of her shoulders.

    HTH!!!

     
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    Danish_Student    July 31, 2010   Denmark

    I love your #1 dress!

     
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    verosara    March 27, 2010   LA, California

    Dress #1 looks great on you!  And the details on it is so pretty and different.  But you should try on the 2nd to see how much you like it. 

     
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    kayakgirl73    October 31, 2009   Virginia, (wedding in WV)

    I like your dress. I think once it's altered for you it will look great. The sample is to long, so your not getting the full effect. I like whoever posted the suggestion of slight sweetheart to to the bodice that could be quite pretty, you might even be able to pin the dress to get an idea of what a sweetheart neckline would look like.

     
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    Chachacha    June 2010   Minneapolis, MN

    Both are gorgeous dresses, but I love the first dress on you. I think it accentuates your curves wonderfully and I really like the jacket. Beautiful dress!

     
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    TheRen    May 2011  

    WHO CARES if your plus size.. Girl you look amazing in that dress! I am plus size too and I cant wait to show off my curves.

     
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    bimba    May 28, 2010   Boston, MA

    wow! i love your first choice...wish i got it for myself..lol

    u look really good in that dress!! i love the detail on it and then i love boleros!!!!

    it looks like both dresses are mermaids, but damn the first one has awesome details..the second one just a little to plain for my taste..

    dont worry about it, you look great...

     
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    PrncssDva    October 16, 2010   Memphis, TN

    You look fab in the dress that you already have!! I love it!

     
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    cradosta    July 10, 2010   New Orleans

    You would need to take a pic in the 2nd dress  but I really like the first dress with the bolero.

    Also remember your jewrely, hair, and makeup will just add to the overall look...beautiful!!

     
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    gigiram77    October 10, 2009   NY

    Hi Ladies! Thank you SO much for all your inputs & compliments! I love the hive!!!

    I already feel better about the dress. Like I said in my post, I do love how it looks or I would never had put a deposit, but I was second-guessing myself when I got home. I thought, what if there was something better? I have to be honest, I was hoping I'd look 20lbs thinner in that dress! But that's just me being crazy! lol.

    Crebre--I always enjoy your posts, thanks!

    Thanks to all the ladies for complimenting the curves! :) The bolero jacket came with it, which is awesome since I was going to get one anyway. I dislike my arms, and was looking for something to cover them up. 

    I did try on dress #2 and loved it because it really sucked me in and gave me more of an hourglass shape, but like Caszos said...1) its not that comfortable and 2) I didn't love the bottom. 

    YSQUEEN--I had the same idea and issue! I feel like the straight line across the bust calls attention to my wideshoulders and arms, so I was thinking about having it modified to a sweetheart neckline, so you read my mind!  What do you ladies think of that idea?

    I think that will downplay my wideness at least a little. I also have a wide ribcage (medically confirmed!) darn it!!  I found a pic of another bride with the dress and modified neckline (below). My Wedding Dress....Having doubts! :  wedding dress lace plus size 1 destination wedding doubts mori lee Dress1neckline Altered

    xoxoxooxoxo Thanks SO much ladies!!!!!

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    gigiram77, I think you look GREAT in your first dress. Be confident... you're beautiful!

     
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    TobeMrsG    August 15, 2010   New York

    I think #1 is a prettier and softer dress and looks great on you.

    The sweetheart neckline is really pretty, I like the modification and it will make your dress that much more unique to you. I also have a sweetheart neckline and I think it draws the eye towards the middle and away from armpit folds that the straight across can accentuate-always a plus.

    Out of curiosity, how does having a large ribcage come up at the Drs? I have always felt that I had a large one and now I want confirmation darnit.

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    you ROCK that first dress :) 

     
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    Ladyjenn    October 4, 2009   Northern CA

    You look beautiful in the first dress so it's hard to say without a pic of you in the second one, but the second one is one of my favorite dresses so I would pick #2.  I love rouching in a dress as well...but the first one you have the picture of you in is gorgeous as well.  I love Mori Lee gowns.

     
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    gigiram77    October 10, 2009   NY

    ToBeMrsG--I was at the doctor for a slight swelling on top of my ribcage and when they did exrays it came up. Funny thing is, they told my brother the same thing when they were checking out his lungs (from chest cold), so I guess it runs in the family!

    I was gung-ho to get a Alfred Angelo, Eden Bridal, or Maggie Sottero gown so I was actually surprised to find out that my top 3 dresses that I loved (including these 2) were Mori Lee's! The 2nd dress is Angela Faccenda, a division of Mori Lee. Who knew!

     
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    teacherbride99    October 1, 2010   Boston, MA

    WHAT you are totally ROCKING that dress...I love the way it hugs your sexy curves!!!  KEEP IT!!!!

     
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    Ex Libris    October 10, 2010   Brooklyn, NY

    you look better than the model!  I know it's been said by PP, but I wanted to say it too.  Us curvy girls have to flaunt them whenever possible!!!

     
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    bmore    October 9, 2010  

    I love it with the sweetheart neckline and I think that would look great on you. Being a broad-shouldered girl myself, I wasn't really fond of the straight across tops either. It's amazing what that little change can do.

     
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    gionnetto    January 11, 2011   Live: Italy, Wedding: Ireland

    Dress #1 is the best because of its vertical lines that make you look taller and skinnier. Not sure the sweetheart neckline will be an improvement tho unless it's really accentuated like in this picture

    My Wedding Dress....Having doubts! :  wedding dress lace plus size 1 destination wedding doubts mori lee Johanna%20Hehir31Aug

     
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    ccranetobe    August 14, 2010  

    Love your dress! You are rocking it!

     
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    Miss Burgundy    May 28, 2010   Southern California

    You look great in it!

     

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