My world has flipped upside down – Long

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
202 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I honestly don’t know what to say in this situation…except to offer an internet hug and take your advice and get that lawyer ASAP. So sorry you have to go through this, there are terrible, awful people out there and be glad you found this out now.

Post # 3
3018 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

Holy crap. I am so sorry this has all happened to you.

Post # 4
2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Oh wow…I don’t even know what to say, other than thank God you found this out now. What a completely spineless, coward of a boy (not a man) he is.

You have done the right thing looking out for those boys, and I am so sorry this has happened. I wish there were somehting more I could say….

Post # 5
5968 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017


FeliciaRene:  oh wow. Im so sorry this is all  happening. How dare he be such a coward. You are truly a good woman to do all you have done. Sometimes people just let us down in the worst possible ways and it’s just a terrible thing to try and deal with accepting that. You sound so strong thougha nd I have faith you will come out of this in one piece. Those boys are lucky to have you, that’s for sure. I’m not sure what I can possibly say that would be of any help but you are in my thoughts and if you need an ear feel free to PM me.

Post # 6
8850 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

omg I’m so sorry.  I’m also SO glad to hear you are not interested in giving him another chance because clearly he doesn’t deserve one.  I also think speaking to a lawyer asap would be a good idea, because of so many complications in the breakup (the kids, the house, etc).  You sound like a wonderful person and I’m sending you big big virtual hugs.  

Post # 8
1987 posts
Buzzing bee

Oh my God! I am so, so sorry you are going through this right now. Do you have friends or family you can lean on for support? You shouldn’t be going through all of this alone. You are so selfless for taking in these boys and to sacrifice for them and then he turns around and does this to you? I just don’t know what to say other than I send you major hugs and will keep you in my thoughts. You sound like you are incredibly strong and have a huge heart. You deserve someone who will treat you like the amazing person you are. Just, wow–big, big hugs and I’m wishing the best for you. I wish I could help in some way. I just, wow. So, so sorry. 

Post # 9
4147 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m so sorry to read your story. My heart breaks for you and his nephews. Are they aware of what’s going on as well? I’m glad you are able to see the silver-lining and I really hope you are able to pick up the pieces and find what you deserve.

Post # 10
2082 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014


FeliciaRene:  OMG…this is absolutely horrendous!!! I would not wish this situation on my worst enemy. Honestly…this may be one of the best things to ever happen to you, though I know it’s difficult to see it now. Thank GOD you never married this son of a bitch. Do you have any of your own family that you could turn to for support right now?

Post # 11
689 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Legare Waring House

My sister-in-law was left by a man who did similar things to her, with two little boys.

It is not an easy road, but it is one that will make you strong, independent, and motivated.

I am so sorry this has happened to you – you seem like a caring, kind-hearted woman and you do not deserve any of this. Please don’t think that you were the cause of his infidelity – that is on him and him alone.

Post # 12
7289 posts
Busy Beekeeper

FeliciaRene:  Don’t wait for him to do the right thing. Lawyer up right now. Protect yourself.

You will also need to check on the status of the custody of the boys since you are not a relative.

Post # 13
2114 posts
Buzzing bee

FeliciaRene:  omg….

i dont even know what to say. You are an incredibly strong woman.

It alsp sounds to me like his drug habit has increased. I guarantee you, he did not only try those drugs once and that is what is probably affecting his choices right now. He found someone he can sit around all day and do drugs with. It doesn’t sound like he is headed down a good path.

I have no advice. I just wanted to tell you that his actions have nothing to do with you. He is being heavily influenced right now, but you cant damage yourself and sit around and hope he sobers up and comes home. You need to think about yourself. You sound like a wonderful person who doesn’t deserve this at all. Those boys are lucky to have at least one good role model in their lives. 

Post # 14
130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

FeliciaRene:  Stay strong, thinking of you! Please private message me whenever you need someone to talk to. 

Post # 15
2696 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

OMG. I am sorry, but what a POS move on his part. I am so sorry he is putting you through this. It boggles my mind that he could be so selfish on so many levels. What the hell is wrong with him?!

I hope this can all be worked out as easily as possible, given the situation.

I am so, so sorry. *hugs*

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