Post # 1
I had a miscarriage. It feels strange to hear those words or even think those words, but there they are. In fact, today is the first day of my normal cycle. I began my MC exactly 30 days ago. My period came the exact day FF told me it was. My MC was physically painful, but the worst of it is the mental anguish. Today, I should be 13weeks and 3 days, but instead I am having my period. Each visit to the bathroom is a painful reminder of what I lost. I worried about it everyday, but it didn’t stop was inevitable. My doctor told me that I could start right away, but I don’t know if we will or not. I am trying to be positive. I want to be positive, but I feel so empty inside. I have had the amazing support of my husband and a few friends that I told, but it doesn’t stop the magnificent lonlieness that I feel. Anyway Bees, I’m checking in. CD1
Post # 2
Bellagiobride: I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s good that you are trying to be positive and that you want to be positive but if it takes awhile for you to be ready to try again, that’s totally normal and okay. Don’t rush yourself. You deserve time to grieve your loss. There is nothing I can say that will make you feel better after such a horrible loss but sending positive thoughts your way.
Post # 3
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Post # 4
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Post # 5
Im so sorry for your loss. ***hugs***
Post # 6
Bellagiobride: BIg hugs to you mama. I am so sorry for your loss. I am CD 1 today too.
Post # 7
I’m so sorry. I had a miscarriage last month (first pregnancy). This is CD 8 for me. However, we have decided to wait a couple of months to try again. As much as I want to be a mother more than anything, I need time to heal emotionally before I’m ready for another pregnancy. Everyone has their own pace, you just have to decide what’s best for you. Good luck and you’re in my thoughts.
Post # 8
I’m so sorry. I can’t even imagine how you must be feeling right now. My heart goes out to you.
Post # 9
I’m sorry for your loss. I’m at CD4 from my second MC. I would have been 14 wks today. I know how you feel. I’m trying to stay positive as well but is can be so hard. I will not be TTC till January. Need time to get some answers. Wishing you a rainbow baby soon.
Post # 10
Bellagiobride: So sorry for your loss. No one understands what it feels like unless they have experienced a loss like this. I had a miscarriage in early September and it was devastating. I recently had my first AF since the mc and my SO and I aren’t really trying but we aren’t preventing either. I’m currently CD13 and about 3DPO. Today (Oct 15) is the day when people light a candle to remember the babies they lost, maybe it will help with the healing process.
Post # 11
I’m so very sorry for your loss!
Post # 12
So sorry for your loss. Hugest of internet hugs to you.
Post # 13
Oh no! 🙁 I’m so sorry for your loss. Big big virtual hugs to you as you recover. <3
Post # 14
I am so sorry to hear this. When you’re ready, feel free to join us over at the TTC after Miscarriage thread. There are so many supportive ladies over there, and it’s really not about TTC as much as “after miscarriage,” so if you’re not quite ready to try you can absolutely still join in.
Post # 15
It is my opinion that you shouldn’t have to feel lonely in your grief. Tell the people in your world so they know you’ve just lost a child and you’re crushed. Then they can grieve with you and do their best to comfort you.
I am so sorry for the loss of your baby. I’m saying a prayer for you today.