My friend keeps dreaming about her exes!?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
645 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014


MeandMyLouboutins:  This used to happen to me ALL THE TIME. I had dreams of my current fiance breaking up with me, sleeping with with other women right in front of me!! I have had some dreams where I am the cheater as well…. i would wake up in tears, they seemed so real. I still have them but way way less than I used to. I never even questioned my feelings torwards my fiance because of those dreams. I dont get butterflies when I see my FI even if he has been gone on a long trip, i still love him just as much. I would tell my friend just based on my experience that is really isnt that big of a deal, but thats just me 🙂

Post # 3
1095 posts
Bumble bee

MeandMyLouboutins:  Tell your friend if she thinks her “before wedding” dreams are weird, wait till she gets pregnant.

Post # 4
2244 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’d tell her that dreams are not something to take seriously. I saw my ex last year after not seeing him for about 4 and after seeing him I had many dreams about him for the following two weeks. I felt guilty at first, but I knew that it wasn’t some “sign from the universe” and he was still a douchebag at the end of the day. Once I quit feeling guilty the dreams went away, because I wasn’t thinking about them anymore.

P.S. I also have dreams about Benedict Cumberbatch. That doesn’t mean we’re soulmates or anything, despite how much I wish we were lol!

Post # 6
7435 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013


MeandMyLouboutins:  i’m not sure if it is cold feet or she lost interest.

i have known DH for almost 4 years. we’ve been married for 10 months.  i still get the funny/excited feeling in the pit of my stomach when i see him, like when he comes home from work.  actually, unless i am in the middle of something that i can’t stop, i usually greet him at the door when the dog starts barking and i hear the key in the lock.

i feel like i will have that feeling for a long time to come.

Post # 8
1534 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013


MeandMyLouboutins:  I think everyone I know has had a dream about another person other than their current SO.  Not a big deal, unless of course she is seriously doubting the wedding in the first place…while shes awake!

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