Post # 1
Well I went to ss to change my name and they gave me no hassle…..then after getting my ss card in the mail I made an appointment to head to the dmv….it was perfect timing cuz my dl expires next month…i was so excited got right in….when i showed her my marriage license she said she cant accept it as a valid way to change my name cuz on my license it doesnt state i want to change my name…ugh what can i do i now have a ss card with my married name and dl with my old name….how can i get my marriage license changed so i can change my dl? any help im so desperate right now….
Post # 3
@AMBAM20: perhaps go to city hall? or contact your council and the births, deaths and marriages registar. i am concerned about this happening too, my mum said she didn’t need to sign a change of name form or anything, just her marriage certificate was enough, but i will be definitely looking into it thoroughly! i am sorry you’re going through this 🙁
Post # 4
I’m surprised SS would let you chenge your name, but not DMV- you’d think their policies would be the same for this situation. Since that doesn’t seem to be the case, I’d call city hall and find out what you need to do to get your name changed on your marriage certificate. Good luck!
Post # 5
I’m confused. Your marriage certificate doesn’t reflect your new name? When we filled out our marriage license, there was a spot to write surname after marriage. If your marriage certificate doesn’t reflect your new married name, I’m surprised SS let you change it. And I’m surprised the DMV gave you a hard time if SS didn’t. Maybe try a different DMV branch? 🙂 Sorry I don’t have a more helpful suggestion.
Post # 6
Wow, where do you live? In MA they don’t require ANYTHING to change your name. I went in ready to show my new SS card and marriage certificate. She didn’t ask to see either. I could be going by Superman right now, decided against it though 😉
Good luck, I would try city hall.
Post # 7
Ugh. I had a similar problem wihen I changed back to my maiden name after my divorce. The SS office had no problem taking a non-notarized copy of my divorce decree (the only copy my attorney had sent me), but the DMV required a notarized copy even though my SS card, birth certificate, and divorce decree all had my maiden name. You would think that federal rules would trump state rules.
Post # 8
that’s so weird. my marriage license does not have my new name because when we got married I didn’t think i’d be changing it. I didn’t have problems anywhere. The DMV didn’t even ask to see it, they just wanted to see my new SS card.
I think you might have just gotten a cranky DMV employee. Try a different location.
Post # 9
@Meowkers: My thoughts exactly…I had no issues either, just showed my new SSN.
Post # 10
Assuming that you talked to whoever works at the front desk, I would honestly try and talk to someone higher up or at a different DMV before you do anything drastic. Maybe the employee misunderstood the procedure? If nothing else, the boss could at least give you an idea of what to do next.
Post # 12
As others said perphaps go back to a different location with a notarized copy and your new SS. In Colorado they don’t make you choose right there and then. I know in California and other states they made you decide right way. What state are you in?
Post # 13
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States and the federal government sometimes have different rules. You may need to apply for a new marriage certificate. The federal government does not require that you predetermine to change your name and many states (like Florida, where I am) don’t ask you to decide in advance, but other states require it. You can get a court order for a name change too.
Post # 14
Thank you all so much for the help…..I live in california, I didnt pay attention to that part of the license when we got married….I filled out the application on line, I dont remember them asking if I was going to change my name…The worst part about it is my name now is my x husbands name, we are going to try and go back to the city we were married in and see what we can do…maybe there is a way they can fix it or maybe we have to speak to a judge…either way I wont stop till I have taken on his name and got rid of my x husbands name…lol