name for your boyfriend other than 'boyfriend'

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@leftyletters:  Nope! I wish I had another name for him besides boyfriend, since we do own a house together and are a serious couple. I don’t like having the same title as 13 year olds. I mean, come on. We’re 24 and 29. Boy/girlfriend sound so disposable.

But we were out to dinner the other night, and when the waiter returned his credit card (with his name on it), he said “Thank you, David, and David’s lady friend”. And we both laughed. I try to get him to call me lady friend now (since its silly) but he just laughs and tells me I’m dumb 🙂 haha

 

Post # 4
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Honey bee

@leftyletters: Not waiting anymore, but we dated for 9 years before getting engaged and lived together for 5 years. So definitely felt like we were more established than “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” before our engagement. We actually wrote down significant other on paperwork/leases, but when I would refer to him, I typically just said boyfriend or his name.

 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@leftyletters:  Also… WELCOME TO THE HIVE! 😀 Its always fun meeting a new Bee 🙂

Post # 6
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Busy bee

I call him main squeeze.

But boyfriend too. I don’t think it suggests a low-commitment, especially in mid-20s. The way we treat each other speaks more to the future of this relationship than the labels.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I call him my boyfriend. I do find it kind of silly that I call the man I have loved for nearly 6 years what kids call their crush. Oh well, boyfriend/girlfriend works for us. Hoping to start calling him my fiancé soon 🙂

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Lol, I met Mr TTR when I was in my 40s (he was in his 50s) and still we referred to each other as Boyfriend & Girlfriend cause that truly was what we were (dating)

After we moved in together, it was BF / GF – SO – or Partner

When FOREVER was clearly in our future it became any of the above or Life Partner

After Engagement Fiancé / Fiancée

(Mind you a lot of people when we were dating thought we were long marrieds… especially those who didn’t know either of us beforehand… so a lot of time people just called us Mr & Mrs… and we would graciously grin & bear it not correcting anyone that we weren’t married, or had two different last names)

Now that we are married… Mr TTR likes to tease me, and often calls me his “Girlfriend” cause he says it sounds way more romantic than wife.

I’m good with either Wife or Girlfriend.  Lol

Infact there is very little in life that I wouldn’t like him to call me… he’s never been a disrespectful sort of guy… so every title he’s ever given me (even in jest) has been good by me (he has some cute nicknames for me at times as well… like Daaarling)

Hope this helps,

 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Towards the last bit of being boyfriend and girlfriend before we got engaged i started calling him my partner I hatinus using the term partner as boyfriend sounded so young and he is older then me 

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Hated**

Post # 11
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Wannabee

@leftyletters:  I’m DEFINITELY going to start using the word pre-ancé ..because I know he’s popping the question soon:) 

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@leftyletters:  I get so sick of the term boyfriend especially since I know he wants to get married next year 🙁 I usually say SO (significant other) or sometimes ‘love’ because he seems to like it 

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

@LeonardLady:  My SO’s grandfather calls me his “lady friend.” Now we use it, too. I just wish we could figure out if Zadie uses it affectionately or dismissively.

We try to use “partner” each time, partially to indicate seriousness and partially to avoid gendered language…but everyone just ends up asking what we mean.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Church

@leftyletters:  “partner” is a very common one because we have beenlivingtogether for quite a while and have joined up all our finances for over a year. SO is the other one. It’s a little funny but his mother sometimes refers to me as his wife when she is introducing me. It is somewhat funny because it gets family friends from his side a little confused as they don’t see us all the time.

Post # 15
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Helper bee

I call him my ‘Man Friend’ or ‘Gentleman Caller’ frequently lol. But if you’re talking about an actual serious name I think ‘Partner’ is a good one.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I usually say “Partner” if I’m in a situation where it feels inappropriate to use the phrase “boyfriend.” We’ve chosen to spend our lives together, despite not being engaged yet, we own a house together and have done for two years, we’ve been living together for nearly three years, and he’s 35 (I am 26); “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” doesn’t seem to fit the sitation any longer. But use what feels natural to you! Partner works for us, but not everybody. 

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