(Closed) PLEASE REVIEW: Namecalling and baiting in the Hive (everyone please read!)

posted 7 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
Member
3788 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Thank you.

Post # 4
Hostess
11299 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Read.

Shame you have to post about this, though I don’t see any of it. 😉

Post # 5
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7695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Agree with all of this! Thank you 🙂

Post # 6
Member
1645 posts
Bumble bee

Can you add a bit about people sending harassing PMs? That is THE most annoying thing on the bee. I don’t get the whole “take it to the PM” thing. If I don’t like what someone is saying to me I don’t send them malicious private messages. I do it publicly, because I have nothing to hide. The whole you-can’t-flame-people-on-the-boards-but-you-can-do-it-privately thing is bogus.

Post # 7
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

If anyone is sending anyone harrassing PMs, please notify a Hostess or a Mod.  We do not have the ability to view PMs so we don’t know that this is happening unless someone tells us.

Post # 8
Member
4336 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

oh thank you! I love that this is 99.99% such a wonderful and positive community!

Post # 9
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3222 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Good call. Thanks!

Post # 10
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4110 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Thanks for posting this! Smile

Post # 11
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3012 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Thanks for posting this.  It was getting quite annoying.

ETA: I’m not trying to start drama or anything like that, but everyone has always complained about The Knot and the way posters respond to certain threads.  Are we not getting that way too?  It’s a shame to see.  I love coming on here, but as of lately it’s just been too ridiculous. I hope we can just be there for one another.  If you don’t like something or agree, then move on.  It’ll be alright.

“Let It Be.”

Post # 12
Member
968 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Agree. Thank you.

Post # 14
Member
361 posts
Helper bee

Is there a list of who the Hostess/Mods are? I’ve been around here for months and I’ve seen I think two hostess tags and have no idea who mods are. So when I received a seriously nasty PM, I would have reported it, if I knew who to report it to.

Post # 15
Member
311 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

It’s sad that this needed to be said, but it’s true.  Thanks for posting. 

Post # 16
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5110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

couldnt agree more. 

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