(Closed) Need a Deep Breath…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Can you just let your wedding planner make some decisions for you? Like, “well i don’t care that much about XYZ, and they are overwhelming, pick something within budget. Whatever you think will look best”

Offloading the decision making will take a lot off your plate. But you have to be ok giving up the control.

Post # 4
Member
97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I completely understand! I was like that about a month out, but I don’t have a wedding planner. You know what I did? Let my FI and mom make the decisions for me. They were the little details that no one would notice and I could have cared less either way.

It helps a bunch to recruit help and ask others to make decisions! It’s also helpful because it’s FI’s wedding too, so he was very happy to get a say! 🙂

I also made a list of things that I DID care about what the decision was, made the decision for that, and moved on. It made me know what’s important and what’s not really important. And it helped me to not dwell on what I decided since it was already checked off the list and I didn’t need to look at it anymore!

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