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    Firefighter_Prazs_Girl    02/3/2010 and 05/03/2010   Angleton Texas

    Okay so this maybe way off wedding subject! Just need a hive hug!

    Mr.FF and I want kids so bad, but I can't have them. We are going the surrogancy route. But it is still really hard. It will cost us around 35,000. I am just having a hard night about it because I told my grandma that we are wanting them and she got so excited!!!!!! UGH!!!!!!!!!!!! I know we will have one in time, but that is the key word it takes time, I can just feel my clock ticking and it seems to be getting LOUDER!

     
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    rosychicklet    September 27, 2008   Boston, MA

    Ugh.  I'm so sorry you're having to deal with this.  Hopefully your grandma and your fmaily will be supportive.  Sending good thoughts your way.

     
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    Lorienne    January 1, 2016   Los Angeles, CA

    FPG, I'm so sorry.  A lot of couples struggle with infertility.  In fact, one of WeddingBee's sister sites is FertileThoughts.com, which has a very compassionate Community of folks in the same boat.  They have a forum on surrogacy, which you might find helpful. I encourage you to check it out if you have time.  

    And I am sending you a great big hug.  Hang in there. 

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    lofi    9/27/08  

    Have you considered adoption? It sounds like you and your husband have a lot of love to give a little child who might really need a wonderful mom and dad.

     
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    lovingpink    06-26-09  

    That must be so hard to deal with uufff! but like lofi mentioned have you guys considered adopting? there are soooo many kids that are in need of loving parents, anyway this is a very personal decision. here goes MY BIG WARM HUG FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!! Need a hug.. :  wedding Icon Wink

     
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    Sezzy    7/3/2010   Philadelphia

    I'm sorry- that's such a shame. I had no idea it was so expensive!  My sister and MOH is in the same boat- she has a  disorder that requires medication that she can't take during a pregnancy, and she can also pass it down (so she's planning adoption).  Big, understanding HUG!! I'm sure both you and the boy have discussed all of your options umpteen times, so I'm sure you're making the right decision!

     

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