(Closed) Need a new maid of honor

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
23636 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Aww, big hugs to you!  My guess is that if you are barely talking, she may already have a slight hint that something is up, or maybe even she is starting to feel the same way as you are.  Can you just give her a call to talk about your friendship and where things are at?  Maybe you two can come to a conclusion together…

Post # 4
570 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Agreed- you don’t want to make that significant of a change without talking to her. Is there something major going on in her life that she doesn’t feel comfortable discussing with you? Maybe you inadvertently upset her, and a simple conversation would clear the air??

Post # 5
3303 posts
Sugar bee

Just say that you don’t want your wedding to be a burden to her as the Maid/Matron of Honor is required to do a number of items. Approach it from the stance that you are concerned about it being a bother to her and come together mutually on that decision. That is what I did- My former Maid/Matron of Honor is still a Bridesmaid or Best Man in my wedding (just no longer the MOH) and our friendship is intact.

Post # 7
43 posts
  • Wedding: August 2012

That’s probably for the best.  I wish I had had that conversation!!  Props to you for being strong enough to confront it now.

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