Need a Vent

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1018 posts
Bumble bee

@RunningGal:  I can understand your frustration. And being pregnant on top of it! Wow! But just know you’ll cherish all the times spent with friends and having fun and sometimes chores won’t get done and it’s not a big deal.

That’s great that he still does hockey and hangs out with his friends. There will be a day when that kind of stuff will slow down so enjoy it for now 🙂

 

Maybe while he’s out with friends ask him to pick up some groceries on the way home!

Post # 4
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3635 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I find making a list for my husband helps a lot.  We have an app that we share (it’s called Cozi if you have iPhones).  We can both see lists that we make.  We have our own to-dos, then grocery lists, etc.  I’ll remind him that *these things* on his list need to be done before we leave and just leave it up to him.  Then there’s shopping.  “So when are we going grocery shopping?  Think you could stop on your way home so I could get the house clean, or do you want to stay home and clean and I’ll go shopping while you’re out with your friends?” 

If once he’s aware of what you’re actually doing he still slips out of the house for his “me-time” it’s time for a conversation about the responsibilities of being in an adult relationship.

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