Post # 1
I am a regular poster going undercover for this post. I have been with my FI for almost 2 years, and engaged for 7 months. I love my FI to death. He is the greatest thing to ever happen to me. But I just feel like something is…lacking. When we first started dating, he pulled out all the tricks to “woo” me. Now that we’re engaged all of that has completely stopped. When I come on WeddingBee and read all of the nice things that the Bees’ guys do for them, I get extremely jealous. I think I may have even developed a slight crush on a guy in my class at University. What do I do?!
Post # 3
Hi there. Well, I’m not expert, but I would tell your FI. I’ve been with my FI for almost 6 years, lived together for 5 1/2 and engaged for 2 months. I’ve found that when things get out of sync a nice talk to re connect helps. Also, look at yourself…have you changed anything? Can you step up your game a little? There are def. roller-coasters in relationships but that’s what makes things so exciting. My FI never thought to come home with a nice bottle of wine until I said “hey…i would feel really special if you brought home a nice bottle of wine for us to enjoy every so often” lol. I know it feels forced at first but just think..he remembered your request and cared to act on it. Couples take a long time to teach each other what they like and how they want things to flow if that makes sense.
As for that crush…It’s probably just a crush! There are tons of cuties out there. Just be sure to keep it a friendship not a flirtship. It takes a bit because who doesn’t like to be noticed by another person…Don’t put yourself in a situation that would be tempting. My FI gets a little hesitant at times because I go to school with pre med students and for some reason that intimidates him…I always think when I am talking to a guy that I find attractive..”how would I want my FI to treat a hot chik if he were in my shoes?” “Would I act this way if my FI were watching me right now?”…Get what I’m saying?
Don’t let yourself fall into a trap of falling for someone else because they seem new and fun…Like my step mom says…Every man puts their pants on the same as the next man…KWIM?