Post # 1
I’ve posted about this before but I just cannot make up my mind, and I need to ask my bridal party officially! My wedding is in May 2015. I currently have “ask gifts” for 4 people.
My two best friends-both asking to be Maids of Honors
My two close long term friends-asking to be Bridesmaids
IS it offensive to have only two bridesmaids? Would you feel that you were on the “2nd tier” if so? I have one more girl I could add but just cannot make up my mind? She is very close to me, but the other 4 and I have grown up together, same town, high school etc.
So I must know-would you feel offended if you were in a bridal party as a bridesmaid and there were two MOH and two BM?
Post # 2
Pebba1027: nope. Not at all. It is also fine to have no MoH.
Post # 3
Nope. If you don’t treat them different than they won’t feel different.
Post # 4
Nope! But I had no MOH, just three bridesmaids, specifically because I didn’t want to make anyone feel weird.
Post # 5
I wouldn’t think so. The only time it’d be weird is if you had 2 MOHs and only 1 BM or 3 MOHs and 1 BM. 2 and 2 should be just fine!
Post # 6
No problem with that. Although make sure they get along 🙂 I was Maid of Honor for my best friend and she didnt want to cause drama with anther of her friends so she had her as the Matron of Honor. My friend had to specifically asign tasks in order to avoid drama from the Matron of Honor (i.e. I did the shower, she did the bachelorette). But the Matron didnt really pull her weight and caused all kinds of drama when I “helped more” or anything like that. My only 2 cents but otherwise, Ive seen it done succesfully with many people.