Need Advice ASAP: Number in Bridal Party

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Does having two MOH and two Bridesmaids make the BM's feel as though they are "less special"?
    No- being in the bridal party is an honor regardless of title : (22 votes)
    96 %
    Yes-add another BM so that the Bridesmaids don't feel as though they are second tier friends : (1 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 2
    3623 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Pebba1027:  nope. Not at all. It is also fine to have no MoH. 

    Post # 3
    3280 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Nope. If you don’t treat them different than they won’t feel different. 

    Post # 4
    1581 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Nope! But I had no MOH, just three bridesmaids, specifically because I didn’t want to make anyone feel weird.

    Post # 5
    2642 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I wouldn’t think so.  The only time it’d be weird is if you had 2 MOHs and only 1 BM or 3 MOHs and 1 BM.  2 and 2 should be just fine!

    Post # 6
    7 posts

    No problem with that.  Although make sure they get along 🙂  I was Maid of Honor for my best friend and she didnt want to cause drama with anther of her friends so she had her as the Matron of Honor.  My friend had to specifically asign tasks in order to avoid drama from the Matron of Honor (i.e. I did the shower, she did the bachelorette).   But the Matron didnt really pull her weight and caused all kinds of drama when I “helped more” or anything like that.  My only 2 cents but otherwise, Ive seen it done succesfully with many people.

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