Need advice? Is she being rude?

posted 3 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Would you be upset by this?
    No, it was nice of her to even offer. : (3 votes)
    4 %
    Yes, its rude to offer if you have no intention of throwing the party. : (78 votes)
    92 %
    Other, explain.. : (4 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    179 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I would absolutely not go to her party. I don’t think you are overreacting at all. 

    Post # 4
    523 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

     Is she part of your bridal party? You’re not over reacting at all even if she isn’t part of it because she offered and instead decided to throw a party for herself. She’s not a real friend, she’s selfish and not much of a friend at all; be wary of her. If she IS in your bridal party I’d cut her off, but in your situation I’d discuss this with her and decide depending on her answer.

    Post # 5
    266 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    Don’t go to her party. That was really rude.

    Post # 6
    3659 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    Any chance she’s trying to throw the bachelorette party for you as a surprise?

    Post # 7
    294 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    Well she blew you off. It’s rude 100%

    Post # 8
    24 posts

    that was rude and selfish, i hate when people dont keep their words or dont even acknowledge that they didnt

    Post # 10
    11379 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @LegallyBrunetteBee:  it could be a surprise i guess but wouldn’t she make sure that you were coming to the party for sure if that was the case?

    why are you having your bachelorette 10 months before the wedding?


    Post # 13
    523 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @LegallyBrunetteBee:  Yea don’t go, I don’t have a bridal party either and I DO NOT want my friends to feel like they need to throw one so I’m planning a joint non traditional party with FI and our mutual friends. I HATE when peope get your hopes up just to disappoint you, she’s not a genuine friend, she could just be honest and let you know what’s going on. Instead she’s just flaking and throwing a party for herself, selfish.

    Post # 15
    588 posts
    Busy bee

    It sounds really rude, unless it’s a poorly conceived surprise party idea, which I wouldn’t rule out entirely. 

    Post # 16
    1627 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I’d go. Have fun. 

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