(Closed) NEED ADVICE: I’ve been snooping . . .

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Should I admit I've been snooping & tell my fiancee there's a diamond missing from my wedding ring?
    Tell him now- you want your ring fixed before the big day, don't you? : (49 votes)
    84 %
    Tell him after the wedding- or he'll just be irritated you snooped and it needs to be fixed now. : (2 votes)
    3 %
    Don't tell him- it's a beautiful ring and you're probably the only one who'll notice it missing. : (1 votes)
    2 %
    Wait until the ring is insured. : (6 votes)
    10 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    452 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    I would go ahead and get it fixed ASAP, especially if it was done by the people who sized it in case they have some time limit on fixing things.  Good luck!

    Post # 4
    Member
    6394 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    If it was my FI, he would just think it was funny that I was trying it on. I’m guessing your FI would think the same. I would go ahead and tell him–he’ll get a good laugh and you guys can get the ring fixed in time.

    Post # 5
    Member
    102 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I had a similiar situation.

    Long story short, I would do what I did, and just bring it up in casual conversation that you would like to see it and put it on (maybe bc you saw something here on WeddingBee, and you just wanted to “see something”).. This shouldnt be an issue.. then since he will be right there you can BOTH notice the missing diamond at the same time…. Then he will know there is a problem, and go get it fixed for you.

    If you have a warranty plan with your jewelry, there should not be any cost to you for this fix.

    I realize this may be a bit sneaky, but maybe once youre married you can tell him, and you can laugh about it ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Post # 6
    Member
    3982 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Tell him now. You may risk not being able to get it fixed or replaced later if you wait too long.

    Post # 7
    Member
    3049 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 1991

    I am a little confused, are you talking about e-ring or wedding ring? I guess I’m just confused because I didn’t think wedding rings were surprises… so the whole snooping thing threw me off. Either way, I would tell him the diamond is missing. This is probably a time-related thing, so you don’t want to wait and then the jeweler blame it on something else. Your SO will get over it I’m sure ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 9
    Member
    349 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    None of the above. He’s gone for the weekend!?

    Girl.. take it and get it fixed! Lol. Jared will do it for like $40, same day! ๐Ÿ™‚ I had my e-ring stone put into a new setting.. and it took like 2 hours! And, they had to change the whole basket that holds the stone bc I needed a different shape.

    And I’m sure if you have a warranty somewhere else.. they’ll be able to do it before he gets home as well!

    Good luck!! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 11
    Member
    1645 posts
    Bumble bee

    If it’s your wedding ring then you aren’t snooping–it’s YOUR ring! And you saw that a diamond is MISSING. That’s a big deal. Just tell him the truth. You went to admire and try on the ring and saw it had been messed up. Then get it fixed.

    Edit: Just saw that he came home and you told him. See? That wasn’t hard.

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