(Closed) Need Advice on a Bridesmaid Mistake!

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
720 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

To clarify – the main reason you want her to step down is because of her flirty behaviour toward your Fiance, and the fact that your Future Brother-In-Law was/is her boyfriend?

There’s not really a good way to get out of this one, I don’t think. However, her flirty behaviour toward your Fiance is simply not ok. Without getting into too much drama, call her on it next time, and the time after that, and the time after that. Let her know that you’re not going to back down. If she doesn’t, then you’ve got a great reason to kick her out. “Sorry Eugenie, but I can’t have someone in my wedding party who doesn’t respect the boundaries of my relationship.” Hard to argue with.

As for the FBIL-dating scenario, there’s not much you can do there. Ride it out. If you do kick her out and it becomes awkward, either it’ll just be the awkward thing in your relationship, or eventually it’ll fade into the background – both options assuming they stay together anyway, of course.

Good luck!

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