(Closed) Need Advice On Close to Home Subject

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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1639 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@caseybop1:  I would tallk to your bridal party asap. Your MOH might be having financial issues right now. Others may not have the money to be able to fly in as well.

If this is what’s best for you and your FI, I say go for it. However if people are financially struggling right now, 4 months *may not* be enough time to travel.

Post # 4
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184 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think that the way your MOH reacted was over-the-top.

But with that said, I agree with PP.  A lot of people don’t have the luxury of flying out for a wedding with only 4-months notice.  If your wedding party and guests were planning for your wedding in 2013, they may already have other obligations for November of this year.  That’s probably what your MOH is not-so-eloquently trying to explain to you.

Post # 5
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136 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Do you think getting married will end the issues with your mom?  If it doesnt then what are your going to do in the future?  I think at some point your going to have to deal with your mom. What happens when a situation arises that she is ruining and your cant rush?   I would talk to mental health experts on the best way to handle this situation.  You deserve a nice wedding and while you could do it in 4 months, do you really want to? 

I dont think it selfish to move your wedding up. If people cant afford it financially, then they can just be guest.  The wedding is really about you and your fi.  I just think its heartbreaking that you are in this position. I hope you can find a solution that allows you to have the best day possible. 

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