(Closed) Need advice on how to stop fighting with DH

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
8464 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

*HUGS* You sound stressed out!  So does your man.  Is there something that is going on (finances, stress at work, family tension, etc)?  It sounds like you’re both feeling a little neglected by the other.  The next time he says or does something hurtful to you, I would try explaining that to him, just in a non accusatory way.  For instance, “You mean so much to me that when you left without saying I love you, it felt like something was missing from my day.” 

It is easy to only see our own needs not being met.  I think if you were to make the extra effort (which you already are), but at the same time be cheerful/happy/upbeat not complain about it; it might bring him out of his rut a bit.  Spoil him with a couple’s massage or his favorite meal.  You could always talk to a couple’s counselor if things don’t improve too.

“The softest things in the world overcome the hardest things in the world.” -LaoZi

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