- 4 years ago
I had been dating this girl for almost a year and we recently split up. To give some background, she has always had her guard up so high and frequently had the “I don’t care” attitude about the relationship. It was too hard for me to deal with and I left the relationship. She would always say that the relationship mattered but never did I feel that way because of what she portrayed. We also throughout our relationship have talked about serious things like rings and buying a house together, but I never thought it was sincere because I would see this attitude from her. After breaking up with her, I missed her terribly and contacted her letting her know that I wanted her in my life always and that I wanted to work things out and for us to make it.
She replied and basically stated through a long text that she is ready to settle down and start a family. She also says that I am the guy but doesn’t think I am ready for this. She also said that she wants someone to marry and go through things with good or bad. I am frustrated because I want the same things she does and now it’s like she doesn’t believe me because I left the relationship. My belief is that if you love someone and basically tell them what you want like she did, and they want the same thing, things can work out. My question to you females out there or anybody… Is she completely done or will I get a response and what will it be?? I told her that I love her and I’ve always wanted that with her but she doesn’t believe me. It is driving me crazy and I keep thinking that maybe she is really done.