(Closed) Need Advice… What to do with my MOH?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
7904 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

Geez, this is an unhappy situation. I’d say if she is the one you love them most and want as your MoH, that she stays your MoH. My best friend didn’t like my first husband much and didn’t think I should marry him, but she was still supportive of me and heck no would I have had anyone else be my MoH.

Post # 4
1408 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I think your Maid/Matron of Honor is the person who can not only support you but be completely honest with you. I think she’s just looking out for you. I was in the same situation a couple of years ago. I didn’t think my best friend was marrying the right person. To this day, I still think she settled for the first person who would marry her bc she turned 30 and freaked. Anyways, I went to her, as a mature adult, and expressed my concerns. She got very defensive, told her Fiance everything and he got involved. Big mess due to immaturity on their part. Needless to say, we haven’t spoken one word in about a year and a half. I wasn’t at her wedding and she wont be at mine. I’m okay with the situation now due many other issues with her (looooong story) BUT if she’s willing to be supportive of your relationship and love you unconditionally then she should be your Maid/Matron of Honor. She’s entitled to her opinion and obviously loves you enough to confront you about it. I figure if she didn’t care about you, she wouldn’t care if you were making a mistake in your life (not saying you are, but you get what I mean).
I say keep her by your side. Maybe try to integrate her into more wedding activities where your Fiance is around so she can get to know him. It sounds like you two can communicate as adults so maybe she will warm up to him if she is around the both of you more.

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