- 3 years ago
Hey everyone. i want to thank everyone who takes the time to read this. So you all may have heard about my sister not treating me the best. I’ll give you a more detailed of it. I won’t say everything but I’ll tell you all the most recent stuff. So when my sister never had a good relationship with my grandpa and step grandma. my mom dosnt either but she’s cordial to them when we see them. My sister has this biter feeling towards them and despite the fact that she dosnt, I still have a relationship with them and they are good to me. My sister dosnt talk to them because she asked my grandpa and step grandma to go up north and my step grandma said to her “will you talk to me”. Well my sister was shy when she was younger so she didn’t talk much. Well after my step grandma said that statement she cried and got upset and since then she refuses to talk to them. That’s why she’s upset. My grandpa and step grandma tried everything to have a relationship with her, they send her birthday cards and Christmas cards every year until after she graduated high school cause all she do will wrip up the card and throw it away without reading them. She wouldn’t call my grandparents to say she received the card and that they were thoughtful. She hasn’t made any effort to call and talk to them since that incident. Now one Christmas my grandparents sent me money and not her and my mom was upset and called and told them to not give me any money anymore but books, pictures, and stickers are ok to send. They haven’t sent money since Except for gift cards. Anywho I know my grandparents have made some mistakes and they aren’t perfect but my sister isn’t perfect either. Due to all this despite what they did in the past, I took the high road that they are my grandparents and I talk to them. Despite the mistakes they made, as I got to know them, they are not bad people Just misguided. My step grandma never had children so it was a tough task to take on adult step children and I know it can be hard. My sister never liked the fact that I had a relationship with them and still has hard feelings about to this day. now let’s jump to the most recent stuff. A couple days ago I posted a status about women’s appreciation month and I putted my sister, my aunt, and my three grandmas including my step grandma And my sister commented saying “can you please remove me from the status if I’m on the same scale as step grandma. I igrored her comment and not said anything. Before that she posted a rude comment on my photo with my grandpa and step grandma. That’s the story of her feelings with my grandparents and my sisters feeling towards them. A few days after the FB status incident I posted a story from Fox News about a girl suing her parents and I put a comment to my link saying that I thought she was a spoiled brat and my sister replied saying “your the one who is a spoiled brat ap2010. If you don’t think your a spoiled brat then get a job and move out. O wait you don’t have one so stfu”. That was the second incident. Well today I called my step grandma just to talk and we were talking and she was asking me about what my sisters problem was. She told me she thinks her attitude is horrendous and she wish my parents would defend me. My other family members from my moms side since the grandparents in referring to are from my moms side but they have seen her FB replies and comments to my stuff and they told my grandparents that they have no use for her anymore. I tried acting neutral saying sorry but I ignore what she does because she’s my sister. My mom dosnt want to deal with her because she’s scared of Julia and would be afraid that it will damage her relationship with her. My dad on the other hand dosnt put up with bullshit but try’s to understand the other point of view.
I am at the point where I’m beyond livid. First off she’s telling me to move out, she’s moving back into my parents house for who knows how long. And I don’t have the money right now plus I plan to stay with my parents until I finish my education. I don’t like how she’s treating me and I’m afraid to tell my parents(my mom pareticularly) about my family members having minimum to no use for her because how’s she treating me. They feel bad for me and wish they could defend me but don’t want to upset my mom. I really need some suggestions. Ideassss