Need help. How to deal with my moms family and how my family looks bad

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ap2010:  You might want to edit this to delete your sister’s name in the second to last sentence of the first paragraph.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ap2010:  At the end of your post there should be an edit option. It is only up for a very short time though on the new site. If it’s gone, put in a request on the Support Board for a mod to do it for you.

I’m not sure if we still have the option to delete 3 of our own posts.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Wow, your sister sounds like a piece of work, but I doubt there is anything you can do to actually change her. But you can limit her ability to hurt and offend you.

If I were you, I’d just keep doing my thing and not pay any attention to her BS. If she says or posts something mean on FB, just say, “That is a mean thing to say, I don’t like that” and refuse to let her draw you out further. Invite you who want to your wedding and if your sister bitches, ignore her. Don’t change any of your plans or make any accomodations for her psycho crap. Too bad if she wants you to move out. Just ignore her. As long as she thinks her crap behaviour gives her power over you and other people, she will continue acting this way, but as soon as you show her that you are going to live your life how you want no matter what she says or does, she will likely tone it down out of boredom.

Post # 7
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42522 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ap2010:  You don’t have to waste one of only 3 deletes you are allowed. You can just ask the mods to remove your sister’s name for privacy reasons.

Don’t hold your breath though, as it looks like only one of the mods has finally started to respond to requests on the Support Board today.

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 9 months ago by  julies1949.
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