need help to understand from someone

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
1634 posts
Bumble bee

I’m sorry, i found your post really hard to follow. What i took away from it though, is that you arent very good at standing up for yourself. You know yourself better than anyone, and you shouldnt let people tell you whats best for you. If something doesnt feel right, or if something is uncomfortable (like moving in with someone before you’re ready) don’t do it. Tell that person why you feel the way you feel and if they cant accept that then they shouldnt be with you. I realize you dont have a job right now, but are you able to seek counselling? if you feel you have a drinking problem, you should look into an out-patient rehab, or an AA meeting. You mentioned that you were on your 4th marriage – this may sound harsh, but theres a reason why your marriages fail. I think it would be wise to figure out why that is before you start dating again. Take care of yourself, and do what’s best for you. Best of luck to you!

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